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I feel sorry for Mavis


- At the naming party scene, it seems that buddy may have run out on Mavis or that something happened after the miscarriage. Buddy is a vapid character who only seeks situations that make him "feel good". Notice how he is attracted to the innocent, enchanted new wife (who, by the way, is the only redeeming character in the story).

- Mavis's parents did not respond or acknowledge her properly when she announced she is an alcoholic.

- it seems that Matthew is the only honest, transparent voice of reason for Mavis, yet, just when she's on the verge of changing, Sandra pipes up with the usual rhetoric and assumptions that helped to keep Mavis teapoed all those years (i am not blaming others, nor am i totally blaming Mavis for her state. I'm saying we all contribute to each other's lives a little and Mavis does not get the support she needs).

- The film screams that if you're good looking and appear to have it all, you don't need support. In a way, it highlights human ignorance and prejudice (toward mainstream angelo saxon appearance).

The only redeeming character in the film, in my opinion, is Beth. Matthew seems okay too ('real'). All the rest are just as faulty as Mavis in their own way, yet they stand back and point the finger like they're holier than thou.

Good film and really enjoyable, even on a second viewing.

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yes! totally agree. I've read comments in the past with people questioning how anyone could feel sorry for Mavis...almost as if she brought it all on herself. Well, I can see that in a sense, but she is a very mentally ill woman who had this crazy notion that her former boyfriend would want to take her back even though he is married with a child. She obviously needs help, and like you said, her parents blatantly ignore and disregard her statement about being an alcoholic. Mavis clearly doesn't have any people in her life that know and understand that she truly needs help, and it makes me feel very sorry for her.

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Hey, thanks for replying to my message :)

I think the film highlights the tendancy to discriminate against those who appear to 'have it all', eg, the attractive, blonde and previously successful type. It demonstrates that we are all vulnerable underneath!

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truly though, people like mavis tend to push away or just disgust the kinds of people who recognize that she needs help. is that a catch 22, or just irony ?

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... her parents blatantly ignore and disregard her statement about being an alcoholic.
Yeah of course Mavis is the victim. It's clear she rarely sees her parents and has little to do with them. (It's mentioned frequently throughout the film she hasn't been back to Mercury for years.) I doubt whether they are aware of her problems with alcohol, especially considering the off hand way she outed herself to them, though the naming party fiasco should have drawn their attention to it. 🐭

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