My view is that instead of living his life, John was obsessing over how to appeal his wife's verdict and somehow get the courts to see she was innocent. I believe she didn't want him to waste his life for what she believed was a futile cause. So, she pushed him away.
She said "Well, you'd be wrong" in order to get him to forget about her and leave her in there.
It's sort of like when men break up with their girlfriends and ask the wife to divorce them when they are in jail. Neither the incarcerated person nor the free person need to be emotionally connected and tortured by attachment to someone they can no longer have.
But fortunately for her, John believed in who she was so strongly, that he kept obsessing and broke her out.
That's the only reason I could think of.
They both committed extreme acts of love: she loved him enough to try to get him to abandon her in jail, and he loved her enough not to.
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