Does a feminist wear heels? Don't know? That's the point

the problem with the word feminism for many people is that it includes the prefix "fem". they assume because of that that feminism is a only female movement. and assume further that feminists wants to be superior to men. but this is not the case. originally it was called feminism because the female part was oppressed by male. and they simply wanted that female people have the same rights as the male ones. with calling it feminism they wanted to shift attention to women - that they exist, that they can think, make decisions on their own that they are important too. so you see, choosing the word feminism is a historical thing.
also the "female" characteristics are often called bad and are unwanted. people use to say "you are a pussy" like having a vagina was a bad thing. or they say "you cry like a girl" to make a boy feel bad for his emotions. they basically say being a female means you are weak, and if you have this "female characteristics" you are a bad person. with the word feminism they(and me) want to show that this allegedly bad female traits are not a bad thing.

as with every movement feminism faces problems. such as dumb people or people woh hate men jumping on the train. and as in any normal situation the loudest people are mostly the dumbest.
as you said feminism is about equality. they fight for having the right to decide. no feminist will say that a woman should do the household. a feminist rather says if you want this than do it but you can also choose a career instead if this better suits you.
also the whole dressing issue - beyonce fights for the right for a girl to dress how she wants to dress. showing your legs doesn't make u a slut. this is not anti-feminism. a male doesn't hide his body either, why should a girl do so? females were for a vary long time oppressed with how do they have to dress. not allowed to reveal to much in the believe that the female body is sinful. so beyonce is actually showing it's alright - it's just a human body after all. and just because it looks different this don't mean it's something you have to hide. but on the other side she does not promote that you have to dress like that to be a feminist. she states: it's your body - dress like you want - no one other than you has the right to say how to dress correctly.

Tss she can wear whatevs as long as dinner isn't late tss FAWHKIN HOME RUN CHIPPERSON!