Happy ending?


Ryan lets go of his luggage and looks up at the board. He says that while families come together that evening he will be on an airplane. How do you read that? Either it's a sad ending in that Ryan is now lonely and aware of what he's missing with his lifestyle, or it's a happy ending in that he's ready for a change in his life. The music during the scene sounds hopeful.

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It is ambiguous. He obviously goes back to his 'on the road' lifestyle, but you wonder now whether it will last. What does his boss say to him? Something like "we're sending you out there indefinitely - or until you reach the place you're going to. Send us a postcard if you get there." Something like that anyway. This suggests, plus of course other events in the film, hat a change may have taken place.

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I agree it is ambiguous. He will go back on the road but he has also learned something about himself. You get the impression he is more open to a committed relationship and might settle down at some point if he finds the right person. "Hey, everybody needs a copilot." When he says that to the hesitant groom obviously there is a subtext there that would apply to himself.

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i pretty much see it as kroyall does.

but basically after he really started to like Alex etc the reality is setting in how loneliness sucks in the long run and how much better it is with at least someone who cares about you being around, which he got a taste of with Alex until he found out she had a family, and then suddenly getting that 10million mile mark is not as good as he thought it would be since he now wants a real relationship basically as his life is empty without it.


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spoilers, duh...

First time I watched it, I thought it was a happy ending. I thought he took Natalie's advice and decided to just fly somewhere with those miles and he was going to move on.

The second time I watched it, I paid attention to the voiceover and how he said there will be happy families together and he'll be alone up in the air flying and to me, it sounded sad.

I still don't know. Opinions anyone?

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I think the ending is deliberately vague. We're left to wonder if he's going to make a change in his life, or go back to the same old thing.

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Yes, I too think the ending is deliberately vague, but I lean toward a feeling that he feels doomed to continue forever in the life he has chosen and become habituated to.

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It's a sad ending. Ryan has finally come to a point where he begins to value human interaction, after working a job which affords him no home base, and which entails firing people. He has justified his job as the "caring" way to do it, as opposed to Anna Kendrick's technology-driven version, but really his is no different. He starts to appreciate his relationship with Vera Farmiga, which has indeed developed into more than a "parenthesis." At least for him.

After her rejection, the news of the suicide, his co-worker's departure, and the news that the company needs their boys back up in the sky, the implication is that this is the life he has carved out for himself. His years of living an anonymous, impersonal life have prevented him from having the warmth of human contact that he realized--too late--that he really wanted.

This sounds much more depressing then it plays out, mind you...

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I would read it as a hopeful ending. Like OP's have remarked, its an open ending, but I think the most important thing about this ending is the change in mindset:

- At the start, he thought it was cool flying around living the anonymous, carefree, (un-backpacked) lifestyle.

- But by the end of the film, he's finally realised how sh*t a lifestyle it really is. people are having family gatherings at night and he's growing old alone up in the air...So although its a sad ending, i think its a hopeful ending. He will now be in that mindset where he's looking to meet someone and settle down which puts him in a far better place than he was at the start of the film..


(in a way, if he hadnt met the evil witch, it wouldn't have changed his mindset. She showed him what he was missing..then took it all away like it was a glimpse)TRAGIC!.

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i thought he killed himself

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Sorry: sad ending.

He realizes he has missed out, and will never form any ongoing family or similar connections.

It's there in the last bit of the final voiceover. Here's the whole thing:

"Tonight, millions of people will come home to screaming children, barking dogs. Their spouses will hug them and ask them how their day was. The stars will wheel forth from their daytime hiding places; and one of those lights, slightly brighter than the rest, will be my wingtip passing over."

People with connections will be there on the ground; he will not be among them, but will be alone up in an airplane.

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It's HIS ending; he's back to exactly where he was when the movie started.

His philosophy, his seminars all involved no attachments. For the one moment in his life he wandered outside of that and was terribly burned. This simply and wholly reinforced his original mindset; the company reverted to having him on the road allowing him to completely return to who he had been...and to who he would always be....

For a romantic, it's as empty a life as one could imagine.

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He is a realist. Life was pretty good and it's pretty good again. Maybe he will have another deep infatuation or maybe he will go on and, like George Clooney, take advantage of being well off, good looking and free, for as long as he can.

Why is settling down into a relationship that won't last a happy ending?

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You sure you saw the same movie? The ending is at least poignant, for the audience and for the character.

The whole character arc of the movie was about him realizing he's missing out on being connected to people: the sister's wedding, the attempt to go to Alex's house, the paternal (or at least avuncular) relationship with Natalie, his reaction when he is presented with his special card, etc.

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The word is bittersweet. He's "home", where he's comfortable, and knows he will be able to stay there for the forseeable future. At the same time he realizes what he's been missing, and even more sad, that he chose to make that life for himself, and may never be able to turn back.

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Sad, because he has now been turned on to what he never thought he was missing.

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Sad Ending.

When the audience is first introduced to Ryan he has an empty bagpack. No human connections. No Friends. 1 studio apt. Always traveling. At that point the main goal in his life is to reach 10 million miles.

Somewhere in between that time he meets Alex. He falls for her, regains ties with his family. When he talks his brother law into marrying his little sister, he not only convinces his (future) brother in law that marriage isn't *beep* and life's better with company, he also ends up convincing himself.

Fast forward to the end, he literally walks off stage during his big Empty Bagpack presentation, metaphorically throwing his own philosophy away. He skips giving his Hertz card, as a symbol of leaving the members reward life behind, and tries to start a life with Alex.


But he finds out shes married, she has a bag pack, and isn't the vagina version of himself after all. He realizes he's alone, and the bag pack speech that he was almost gloating about, becomes an unwanted harsh reality.

To top it off, he unexpectedly reaches his goal of 10 million miles. Unhappy, with no ties, no connections, he's back in the air. No longer can he promote, and share his "empty bagpack". He realizes that he wants it filled. He doesn't even have a goal to strive towards, he's already hit his 10 million miles. His life more or less continues, but with now the realization that he is, regrettably..alone.

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Great summary.

You pointed out some details I didn't catch even after watching it a few times. Like most people who watched this, the ending came out of left field and left up to the imagination of the individual watching the movie.

"Toto, I've [got] a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore."

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I thought it was an amazing film,

good story telling, had a real american feel to it, kind of like Fargo 1996,

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It's meant to be ambiguous, but I wholeheartedly believe it's a tragic ending. He realizes through falling in love with Alex and seeing his family go on like normal without him (there's even a line "you don't even exist to us") that he has wasted his life away with his *beep* philosophy. He realizes that his life is empty. The montage of people who had been fired, talking about how their families have saved them from their depression and feeling of worthlessness proves this.

Even though he has riches, a steady job, and a life where he can do whatever he wants, and spend money however we wants, they are better off than he is.

I don't feel enough for you to cry.

Oh well.

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I agree it's meant to be ambiguous, but not quite like you think. If the ending showed Ryan depressed and crying about his empty life or have him killed in a car accident then it would have been a bad ending or at least tragic since that would imply "you're too late".

Ryan (and I wager most of the audience) was surprised Alex was a cheating immoral wife. The fact is even people in marriages may suddenly find themselves single. The divorce rate is over 50% so it's no safety net for depression - not to mention those who stay in unhappy marriages making themselves and/or their spouse depressed. And who would want to be Alex's husband being played as the fool for years? I would take Ryan's position over Alex's husband any day. Anyone could suddenly find themselves lonely and betrayed like Ryan and need to start planning where to go next, as implied with Ryan in the airport at the end. Ryan is intelligent, rich with a steady job, can do whatever he wants, spend money however he wants and on top of that he looks like George Clooney ... thus he will have no problem finding a girlfriend, fiance, wife, having kids, starting a new job, starting new hobbies and/or new philosophies if he now wants any of those. At the end in the airport, Ryan doesn't focus on his old philosophy or the past disaster, Alex, who is broken... rather we see Ryan can go down any number of paths at that point in his life (aka take any number of flights).

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Bingo. Truth is Ryan was an alpha male, that simply hadn't found someone to settle down with. Alex's husband was a beta who settled for the first girl who would let him throw money and security at her, while she continued to pursue alpha's to satisfy her sexual appetite. This is how the world works thanks to feminism now, women are constantly looking to trade up for men in the top 20%, while the rest of the guys are considered nothing but beta providers, and the bottom class of men spend lives full of internet porn or paying for sex (either illegally through prostitution, or legally through marriage).

Ryan simply didn't realize how good he has it. Now all he has to do is find that girl he wants, before she's already tied herself down. For the majority of guys out there, they are going to be Alex's husband, doomed to live a life of being cuckolded or alone.

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I think you nailed it, miamiflash3!





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