Ms. G made me sick


I'm surprised there's not more hatred for her on this board. I couldn't stand her at all. So manipulative, passive aggressive, slimy, skeazy, selfish, phoney, dishonest...GOD. She reminds me so much of a female version of some pervert teacher in high school I knew who always had a "pet" and all the students fawned all over him all the time because he was sooo unconventional and cool and fun and hip. I saw right through it, the sick perv that he was. He eventually was kicked out for his perviness, although no arrest was made (unfortunately).

Scum like this probably didn't get what they needed in their own teenage years, thus have to infiltrate into teens' lives so they can fill some stupid void, once they are older and thus have the upper hand. I couldn't stand her at all. The way Fiamma acted around her is how I acted around that teacher...it's just like, complete cold shoulder, GO AWAY I'M NOT FALLING FOR YOUR BS. And other students actually were mad at me for it, despite the fact that he was KICKED OUT FOR BEING A PERVERT.

I guess this movie struck a chord in that way. I enjoyed it, but it made me angry how it ended too. I just hated her. I don't care if she had some major anxiety issue that forced her to stay in the confines of the school, where she could be the "star" in all the children's eyes. Notice she was cool and confident as long as everyone was kissing her ass and thought she was the best thing ever. Until Fiamma came along, and saw right through her BS. Ms. G. couldn't stand it so she tried to regain control in any way she could. When she couldn't, she destroyed her.

YUCK. YUCK. YUCK.

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I agree -- not a very pleasant character by ANY means. I believe that there is less vocal hate for the character because so many people love the actress portraying her.

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I agree. She was so creepy!

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AmndIks, good point. I did think the actress did a good job...for some reason the scene when Fiamma finds the postcards of hers that Ms. G was hoarding in her room...the look on Ms. G's face when she found them was so odd but worked really well, lol.

But man what a depraved human being, I was so mad that she got away with it all...no one saw through it except Fiamma, and then she was snuffed out . Grr

It is true though. Movies like this, Donnie Darko (the Patrick Swayze character) and Doubt all struck home with me and that experience in high school with the perv teacher. Because unfortunately, these perv people are slick and often likable, so nobody WANTS to believe the truth about their intentions, and are more than willing to look the other way and be in denial...and often those who stand up against them are made out to be the bad guy. So unfair.

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That's life, unfortunately: most people can be too easily manipulated by a few charismatic individuals into doing unspeakable acts or overlooking horrible things occurring right in front of them. I luckily had no personal experience with pervy teachers, but I did meet a teacher in charge of a special education class. She clearly was not cut out for the job and even provoked and bullied some of the students if she was sick of them, but because she was beautiful and vulnerable to high school administration looked the other way. It is very good that you had that immediate gut reaction, in both this movie and in your own experience-- if more people reacted that way then these manipulators would get away with much less.

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I don't care for Eva Green at all. I do think Kate Winslett would have been better in the part, but too small a budget for the likes of her.

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I wasn't talking about the actress (who did just fabulously in my opinion), but the character.


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A very interesting and perceptive post, hyene_r. My day job involves dealing with victims of sex offences and Ms G's behaviour was classic "grooming." Even if she hadn't acted on it physically, her hold over these girls (to boost her own ego and self-worth), obsession with Fiamma, and "Queen of the Kids" persona was really disturbing. I've also known some older men who've behaved like that with teenage girls (or boys) - while not being classic paedophiles (they're arguably ephebophiles/hebephiles), they set themselves up as "Kings of the Kids" and supply them with alcohol etc, encourage them to rebel. Even without any sexual element ... it's creepy and inappropriate.

That said, I found it hard to totally hate her - she was obviously an extremely damaged and screwed up woman - although I did find her character both pathetic and repellent at the same time. Of course, whatever her psych issues and past traumas, it did not excuse the way she abused Fiamma or manipulated the others. There are plenty of people with anxiety issues and lack of emotional maturity who don't feel the need to bolster their self-image in this way.

I found this a really compelling albeit disturbing film. I don't think it glamourised the abusive dynamic of Miss G's relationships with "her girls" at all, although it's not for everyone and I can understand why some viewers might be troubled by it. It's also a very powerful indictment of such repressive, claustrophobic school environments, as well as highlighting the more subtle methods of female bullying. It's definitely the sort of film that would get people talking afterwards about the sort of issues it raises, which is a good thing.

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sekmhet-n...undoubtedly these kinds of people are psychologically screwed up themselves. So they are pathetic, in a sense....and like I think I mentioned before...they probably lacked something vastly in their own teenage years...perhaps were abused, traumatized, bullied, outcast. Something. So they grew up to be a monster who mastered the art of manipulation to suck out of the current teens what they never got, to fill that void.

A lot of my hatred comes from them getting away with it, and/or other people supporting them because they are so "cool" or "likeable" or whatever. Because they don't want to believe that they are really the harmful, manipulative and depraved individuals that they truly are.

And yes, this teacher I spoke of was definitely one of those "Kings of Kids" and more an ephebophile I believe than pedo, considering he targeted 14-16 year olds.

Her CLEAR manipulation and hold over the kids for her own self-worth, and the readiness the other kids had to defend her b/c she was their cool, hip and amazing teacher -- while Fiamma is totally being both victimized AND now ostracized...it just enraged me b/c it struck too close to home. I wasn't victimized/targeted by 'my' pervy teacher, but someone near me was...and then I was the one left behind who was viewed as such a big cold-hearted jerk b/c I had absolutely NO pity when the precious perv teacher was kicked out for his perviness. I was even described as an evil ice queen and that no one gave a *beep* about what I thought. I felt like how Meryl Streep felt in Doubt to some extent (or, when I saw that movie years later, it felt familiar to my own experience.) While they were all sad, making cards for the teacher after he was fired, planning a farewell picnic for him (and having the balls to ask me to ask my mom to help coordinate it -- which I shot down with flaming arrows) -- I stood my ground that he was an a***hole who totally deserved to be fired because he WAS indeed an inappropriate, perverted, two faced, manipulator. People even though...well sure, maybe he was pervy, but so what? He was such an awesome teacher. And again, I was the one made out to be a cold-hearted jerk. So yeah, that's where a lot of my anger comes from I'm sure.

All that being said, this movie did an awesome job portraying all those infuriating complexities of this kind of person and situation.

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Strangely enough, there was a teacher in my high school, who was also named Ms. G, and she was the same way. All the kids loved her because she was 'hip', 'cool' and could 'identify' with them but I could totally see right through her. She wasn't involved with any student sexually but she definitely manipulated them psychologically.

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Me too! When I was a teen, I attended a highschool where at least half a dozen teachers were sleeping with students. There were constant whispers about what was happening, but no one wanted to rock the boat, because these people were considered 'cool' and no one wanted to put a target on their back. I was a victim of one of these guys myself. A couple of years after I graduated, two of them were fired, and I can't say I wasn't pleased to hear it.

So obviously, Ms. G's character made me a little queasy, because there are SO many authority figures out there who abuse their position. But I couldn't hate her, because she clearly had psychological issues and was a victim herself in some ways. I actually sympathized with her a couple times.

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I was sorry for her all the movie except the end. I didn't think that would happen and was disappointed with the movie.
Miss G is a tragic character. She was trapped all her life in that boarding school and she wanted to experience life but couldn't and at the end was scarred of the real life. Remember the scene where she goes shopping? So when Fiamma came who had so many real life experiences, Miss G started to worship her because she wanted to be like her...as well the other girls were jealous of her, so was Miss G.
Miss G never had any sexual experiences too I think, so that's why she fell in love for her student.
I think she is more tragic then a molestor.

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Yes I agree with you vedrana, that she was very tragic. She was afraid to leave the school for fear of the outside world and whatever happened to her in the past was probably the reason. A touch of agoraphobia here I think.

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I HATE Miss G. And I too was a target of a perv male teacher hitting on me every chance he got. Everyone liked him because he was young, ~cool, and handsome. I didn't buy into that, nor did I respond to his advances. In retaliation, he gave me failing marks. :\

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Believe it or not, me too. What's up with slimy teachers named Ms. G.?!??

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Agreed. I have no sympathy for a charlatan who, oh right, raped and murdered a child.

It was clear from the beginning that Ms. G never gave a sh*t about her students. All she cared about was her self-image. It was clear from the way she openly resented Fuzzy, from the way she traded in Di, and especially the way she tried to associate herself with Fiamma.

Maybe Ms. G was crazy, but she was primarily a sh*t. I'm of the notion that books and films can teach us equally about good people and bad. To me, morality is a binary - you either did right or did wrong - but that doesn't mean someone who messed up can't make amends. It depends on what they did. There's no way for Ms. G to make amends for what she did.

Besides, "shades of grey" is a cliche. It sucks to have to listen to that tripe every time you're presented with a charismatic villain. Books and movies shouldn't teach us to all think the same way about morality. If I want to hate a character, I'll *beep* hate her, thanks very much.

In my opinion, "Cracks" does more to expose the dangers of pack mentality than even "Lord of the Flies." In the latter, all the kids are away from civilization. The "Cracks" girls prove it's not just castaways who succumb to their basest instincts when under pressure. Forming the mob was enough.

Don't get me wrong, I loved-hated the movie... It was good. But the big takeaway, for me, was just this: people turn on people who tell truths they don't want to hear. And the people who boast that they're nonconformists are usually the most desperate to be taken in by a group.

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I love Eva Green but she definitely disturbed me a lot in this movie.
i felt bad for Miss G but I hated her for what she did to Fiamma and the way she manipulated all of the girls.

"The Horseman comes... and tonight he comes for you!" (Lady Van Tassel, Sleepy Hollow)

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blacknyellowsquid, excellent points and I agree with everything. The truly strong individuals see through these sociopathic type behaviours. In the movie and in real life, I see exactly what you see.

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I think that you are being a tad harsh on her to be honest. Yes, her actions were completely disgusting and there is no excuse for what she did, but at the same time it is obvious that she has had a fairly traumatic upbringing herself and this moulded her into the person she became. I saw her as a tragic character deserving of pity as I thought she didn't seem particularly unimpassioned and methodical with her actions but instead seemed to act out of foolishness and desperation.

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Well while i did kinda hate her and didn't want her to get away with it I do in fact feel bad for her social anxiety. I have it myself, though probably not quite as bad but in some ways yeah. At least it's kept me from having any sort of normal life and while there's never any good excuses to become a cold manipulative person, I can in a way sympathize or at least understand how it could lead to someone becoming this way. I see it really that in the end Miss G was just a terribly frail and psychologically unstable individual that had such an abnormal and sad life that really it's no wonder that she would end up as she was.

This might be fiction but historically there wasn't much help for people with her kind of problems even back then. Nowadays she'd get proper follow ups with a shrink, probably some meds and would be encouraged to try and go out into the world, all things ensuring she wouldn't have become the individual she is in the film. If on top of it she really WAS a lesbian ....back then too...then her anxiety issues were only the start of her problems (i mean IF because with the life she had she might simply have gravitated towards girls because that's all she knew and felt comfortable with and the only people she ever felt love from, in the scene in the shop though she DOES seem very wary of men in particular so i wonder if it isn't some hint that maybe part of the reason she had those anxieties is because she was abused by men when she was young?) I think things are always more complex then just people being "evil". Evil is a religious notion more than anything else.

I think really the real reason i kinda hated her is because i can't stand fake people. People who pretend their lives are something it isn't. That's more what i didn't like about her. If i'd written the book she would have been called out on this, the girls would have found out, they'd have resented it and her at first and then would have understood why she's made those lies up and would have felt sorry for her and then in the end everyone would have been friends........a lot less dramatic and a lot more boring surely. :-p

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ugh! I was out of town on vacation when I was watching bits and pieces of this movie and one of the parts that I caught was when they were beating her up and Ms. G just let her die. Just that nearly killed my vacation. I was wishing there was a way to just reach through the screen and strangle her to death.

But I also could relate to your thoughts on manipulative people. Thankfully, I never had a problem like that with any of my teachers, but other kinds of people: a former friend who some people would not believe me about the real truth about her. She would manipulate you into believing she was a close friend of yours just to make you believe her side of the story on everyone she has a beef with.

And I never really believed that being a victim gives you a free ticket to start causing harm to others physically or psychologically. Sure, you could sympathize with them to some extent, like I do myself, but you could only sympathize with them so much. I mean, come on, if it was your daughter or another relative that Ms. G molested and allowed her to die later on, would you really pat Ms. G on the back and tell her you forgive her because you know how much she's been through?

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