I thoroughly agree with you about the use of the word "seduction" (honestly, people, really??), but I'm not sure I have the same issue with "relationship," simply because that word doesn't imply something positive or even consensual. Meaning, just because you have a "relationship" to or with someone doesn't mean it isn't an awful, toxic, completely deranged one, if that makes any sense. I've referred to the "teacher/student relationship" and the "relationship between students" when blogging about this film, and I in no way mean to imply that they were healthy relationships. Rape can and does take place within human relationships, after all, so in context that word doesn't trouble me (YMMV, of course!).
But yeah, by and large, when I read things on the board that use terms like "seduced" or "romance" or "forbidden" (unless they mean forbidden by laws of morals, for god's sake!), my jaw hits the floor. Liking this film or others with similar themes doesn't, IMHO, make someone a creep, but totally missing the point and thinking what happened in "Cracks" was hot somehow (sort of the way people sometimes talk about "Lolita")? Just...no. Ick. No.
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