Why stay?
Why on earth did she stay? I get that it was her farm and all, but when the military is packing up and telling you its time to go, wouldn't you put aside all personal sentiments and collect your family and find a safe place? Perhaps to return when it is more stable? Either way, that farm is gone, and staying isn't going to help matters.
To me, she went about her business, while not completely ignoring her world collapsing around her, being oblivious to the danger it presented to her. She was delusional if she thought they were immune from being taken over by the rebels.
And yes, I know I'm not one to talk, not being in a French colonized country in the midst of a revolution.
Love's turned to lust and blood's turned to dust in my heart.