A real life Yes Man


This guy:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacob_Holdt
is a danish photographer and writer.
Read about him wikipedia.

Anyway, the point is, at a conference I attended he told his story.

The way he stayed alive and so amazingly avoided getting killed by the numerous murderers, rapists and muggers he met - and lived with! - , was simply to say yes to everything.

He might avoid situations that implied an uncomfortable suggestion, but once the question was out, he would answer yes.

As a hitchhiker, he had sex with many gay men. If driving himself he would take up anyone who wanted a ride, and generally he never turned anyone down.

The result seemed to be that he was never afraid of anything and adopted the world view that everyone basically just needs love. Nobody seemed to want to kill him.

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who cares what they want. Its what he wants.


Why am I such a misfit?I am not just a nitwit.

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Although exciting and eccentric, that is not a life I would want.

Men in Black III
May 12th, 2012

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Maybe not doing exactly what he did, but an exciting life would be good. No need to say yes to everything for that :)

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haha that reminds me of this quote that i love..."whatever happened to sex, drugs and rock n roll? now all we have is AIDS, crack and techno"

idgafBRO

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I think if you go to his website I don't believe he states he had sex with gay men. He talks about hitch hiking with his dates and if the driver is a gay man he sits up front and talks with him and interacts while the girl stays in the back. If the guy driving is straight he has the lady sit up front.

Either way this guy has lived a hell of a life. Puts the yes man to shame.

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