It took me forever to 'get' this movie
Honestly, at first watch I noticed quite a bit of symbolism from the get go but when it was over I was kind of 'meh' about it. I only watched it once, but here I am months later . . . I was thinking about it and WOW! The complexity is friggin' amazing.
How the film directed your thoughts away from what was REALLY going on, really incredible. Did any of you guys pick up on things later that wowed you?
The characters were so much more than the sum of their parts.
the focus on homosexuality was a diversion from the point of the story and the writers knew that, because when men are homosexual, society makes that the entirety of who they are and we feel second hand shame through them. When what you were really watching was a quiet sociopath circling his prey. So many other things I just didn't think through until later. The kid faking his connections to people, this bond you think is forming between these two men is only a game. The dynamic between the brothers was another layer of rivalry, pride and shame on top of everything. It was all about hiding your true self, every character was playing a game rather than being honest about who they were. The boy's mother drinking would probably be me in that situation, anything to try to escape for a while until you have to put the mask on again.