I can see how the over the top styling was a statement, or symbolic if you will, of how farcical and over-the-top things had become. That's a good point.
But someone elsewhere on this thread offered the argument of why shouldn't Carrie have her big, fancy wedding - it may have been Big's 3rd, but it was Carrie's 1st!!
That is huge.
He should have conceded that the wedding day should be what she wanted it to be. She'd waited ten years of him sitting on the shelf, this might be the only wedding she'll have. That doesn't negate the true importance of the marriage, the "me and you". In fact, making a big deal of it is something you do in the belief that it's going to be your only one, which in fact supports her belief in their union after the big day. He should have known that just because you have a crazy huge wedding and make a big deal of that one day, doesn't necessarily mean it's not still all about what you have as a couple.
He should have known "This is typical Carrie, let her have her day." But then, there wouldn't have been a story to hang the movie on, lol.
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