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Why was Precious so mean to her neighbour?


There was a girl that lived in Precious building that always wanted to talk to her, wanted to see her baby, she was all friendly and all that she got was big Precious pushing her down to the floor. Only when Precious sees that the girl is being abused just like her then she is nice and gives her the orange scarf

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I got the feeling that Precious was taking out her anger on the little girl. Yet, the little girl did seem annoying. And I believe Precious gave her a red scarf, red meaning the color and symbol for HIV/AIDS.

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The little girl wasn't real. She was another figment of Precious' imagination, and was Precious herself as a child. You can tell from the final scene where she's sitting down with the younger version of Mary (Precious' mother), and she suddenly disappears when Precious looks in her direction.

Also, I think the scarf is the same one given to her during the daydream sequence at the beginning of the film (given by the younger version of her grandmother maybe?). Most of all, giving the scarf was an act of love and kindness to herself. After hating herself for most of the film (being verbally and physically abusive to the little girl) she has learnt to accept and love herself.

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Shya83, at one point at thought you could be right, it could be precious when she was younger. But then if you look at the little's girl mum sitting next to her is a different actress, if it was really precious mum they would have just put Monique instead and make her up to make her look younger. So I guess the little girl was real.

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Thank you Shya83, this is a perfect explanation :)

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Shya, I don't know if you're correct or not (maybe the book explains it?) but this is a great explanation.


Some hurt, some love, some shout. I fought the world and I lost that bout. ~ Blue October

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I can totally see what you're saying now. I wonder if this was mentioned in the book.

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because people who grow up in abusive homes end up abusing other people

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I thought Precious was actually protecting the girl (maybe unconsciously) by keeping her as far as possible from Precious's own messy life.

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She only pushed her once, whilst she was running away from her mother who hurt her baby. It was hardly done out of malice!



Ashmi any question

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The little girl is real... when we see her with her own mum at the end, we realise that Precious' suffering is shared with many girls around her.

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A person who has to struggle just to survive every day doesn't have anything left over to give to others.

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People who grow up in a toxic living situation only learn bad behavior. They have no one decent enough to raise them with good values.

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