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Reaction to the death SPOILERS


Since thank goodness I never had anyone close to me die, or see a genuine reaction to sudden death (again, I consider myself lucky obviously) so I have no way of telling whether this question is justified. But.
When the poor kid gets shot, the mother's first reaction is to switch off the telly. No crying, no screaming the kid's name, no crawling to the husband, not even after she "breaks free", when her biggest concern is putting on some clothes. Very practical thinking, I have to admit. Then again, generally in other films they spend a little more time grieving, sometimes they spend entire films dealing with grief.
Tim Roth's reaction at that point seemed a lot more realistic to me and believable in terms of what a person would behave like if their son was just shot in the face (not to mention the rest of the situation).
Or maybe she was just that strong, or the adrenaline, or she was hyperrealistic (although I strongly doubt that since for the rest of the film she didn't do much).

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I dont think there is a right and wrong in this situation. The psychological effect this can have on someone can be completely different depending on the person. Also in any of the wide varieties of shock you can experience and reaction could be realistic.

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I think shock can effect you in different ways - she obviously set a task for herself to get the bindings off her hands and feet and that's what got her through his immediate death. As soon as she sees/hears her husbands grieving it snaps her out of her trance.

I think in many mainstream films the over the top wailing and throwing yourself on the body of your dead child is the exaggerated version. Many people just close up and go silent while others even laugh.

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The tv was on loud, and was showing a really obnoxious, annoying car race. At the very least, turning it off gave them a better chance of hearing whether the intruders were still in the house, but it also removed a distracting stressor and let them talk to each other more quietly.

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Exactly. As soon as she did this I said to myself "that's exactly what I would have done". I feel the point is she's already been through so much trauma there isn't a hell of alot she can do and I doubt she wants to completely lose it wailing over her splattered child... She just saw what happened to him and tht was enough. She had to just get on with it and at least provided his death as well as their grieving with some dignity by allowing some silence.

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