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What a selfish annoying man

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Agree with OP, he was very weak, selfish and annoying. Still a reasonable flick though.

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I'm going to paraphrase Thoreau here... rather than love, than money, than faith, than fame, than fairness... give me truth.


I am pretty shocked at the comments in this thread...none of these accusations of selfish had crossed my mind during the film and they still don't. At what point are we allowed to do something for ourselves and not be called selfish. Chris seemed like a hardworking individual and everyone he came across seemed to enjoy his company. Had Chris decided to tell his parents/sister where he was, they would have probably (selfishly) called the authorities and tried to bring him back (a place he clearly didn't want to be). Chris didn't like what society had become and I can't blame him for that. I think he was a brave young man who took his life into his own hands and experienced something that most of us will never get the chance to.

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He gave $24,000 to Oxfam. What a jerk.

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i thought he was a selfish ungrateful little @$$h0le who thought he was smarter than everyone else. (he was intelligent, just not very smart.)

"will someone tell that mime to shut up?"

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he passed away so I wont bash the dead, but I think it was enough time after a year to go home. I would think that this experience really hit his parents hard and his sister too, you just cant forget that, cant hug him again, you cant hear him again.....im not a parent but I would think that I would change after a year of him being away. I can understand why he did it but I wouldnt be able to for the hurt that I would put on my parents and how miserable they might be if something did happen to me, but then again I dont have abusive parents and I consider myself lucky for that so maybe he just dint see it my way.

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true, he let his ego drive him, but realizes that he was wrong in the end, but by then, it was too late.

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Those that are claiming he has an ego and he's selfish, get a clue. That is blatant ignorance on your part. Show Chris some respect. Try to abstain from insulting Chris, his family, anybody associated with him.

The lack of common decency from people these days astounds me.

Why, he wouldn't even harm a fly- Psycho

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Not wanting to live in a society that is drugged by mass media and materialism is a bad thing? How can seeking true liberation be wrong? Does no one look around anymore these days and think 'Holy crap!!! What the fook is this!!?' Or are we all too busy staring at screens? McCandless seemed to me like a soul who felt the suffering in the world that's caused by society's destructive addiction to putting a price on everything instead of realising its true value.

*Adopts Morgan Freeman's voice*: Is a tree, stood majestically in a forest for hundreds of years, a tireless provider that contributes to the sustenance of all life on this planet? Or is it £25,000?

The portrayal I saw of Chris McCandless was one of a young man who wanted to get away from a society that's grown increasingly toxic. Humanity is desperately misguided and I see no fault in someone having the desire to find out who they really are. Granted, he could have kept in touch with his parents and been more compassionate towards them, but I'm hazarding a guess that Sean Penn set out to give the impression of McCandless on a spiritual quest that carried with it certain requirements, including the relinquishing of his former self.

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Cook the man some eggs!

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He is selfish.

"But his parents are abusive"

They were abusive toward him but, to each other. No parent is perfect but they did try their best. They cared about his education, attending his graduation, paying for his law school, and offering him to buy a new car.

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Exactly, they cared about the new car, the silly pieces of paper that say you're better than everyone else (when in reality a lot of the time you're regurgitating the beliefs of others). Chris McCandless didn't. He saw from a young age that there was so much more to life. Maybe they could have learned a thing or two from him by simply listening.

I started waking up from the trance imposed on us by society around 4 years ago. The most painful yet rewarding experience of my life and I can totally relate, because even now I'm isolated. I'm surrounded by people who are blind, who think that having fancy educations and the latest doo-dahs and big houses and flashy cars and funky gadgets is the key to happiness. We neglect each other in this relentless pursuit of something external to temporarily satiate us, when ultimately happiness is a state of mind!

Is being away from your loved ones for most of your day really how we should live? Should we be continually competing against each other, fighting for everything? Or should we be cooperating?

We are all connected. An ever increasing number of people are having bizarre mystical experiences that literally tell them this. Myself included. Maybe Chris McCandless bloomed too early?

He was not selfish, he couldn't handle being surrounded by consumerist, capitalist, brainwashed zombies who are fast bringing around a true Hell on Earth in order to feed their gluttonous habits and support their skewed perceptions. I was one of those people.

There is something deep inside all of us that loves us more than we can ever comprehend. It is screaming at us to wake up before we kill us all. We are supposed to be the guardians of this planet, not the murderers. We are not supposed to be divided. We are supposed to be tolerant, compassionate creatures. Our very nature instills this in us from birth. We get programmed with fear, hate, prejudice, bigotry, sectarianism, xenophobia, homophobia, racism and sexism in order for megalomaniacs to keep us under control by fighting each other instead of them. We are told that everyone has a mental 'disorder', when in reality it is our souls telling us the truth: that this world is an inversion of what it should be.

We have lost our way, and the people who have this heightened awareness can literally feel the sadness in this world as our 'rulers' lead a charge towards catastrophe that no species will survive, in order to massage their sociopathic egos.
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That might be a bit harsh way of phrasing it but I do have to agree that the hero worship that has sprung up around him is odd. It's also important to note that when these types go out into the wild to "be one with nature" or whatever they want to call it they often put the lives of others at risk. Rescues teams for people ill equipped and untrained and delusional come at a great cost of money to the state (which is why some places have begun charging reckless behavior to recoup some of the expense) and unnecessary risk. This is especially true of mountain rescues, poor weather conditions and remote locations. In the end this should be a cautionary tale of a man who clearly had stuff to work out and had a typical "fairy tale" image of the wild counter to the very dangerous reality one must respect of untamed land, and died a lonely and desperate death. Many of us believe if we enter our North American wilds we can simply survive from will power and determination. It is, after all, right outside our door. It's familiarity is an illusion. Most of don't know it at all. I certainly am no expert and know that wandering out into the woods unprepared might lead to insight, but definitely to injury or death. If he had chosen the Congo or the Sahara there is a distinct chance more would recognize ignorance, maybe even hubris, and less likely inspire hero worship.

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