Hi,
I just wanted to say that I do agree with your first statement. Sometimes people say and do things subconsciously without thinking that it may come across as being "racist" or being "sterotypical". However, your last comment came as a shock, but who knows maybe it was a subconscious thing for you too (Don't worry, we're all human ).
You stated: "I have friends who, whenever they talk to black people, get that ghetto accent and use "black people phrases" like 'holmes,' or 'sup, sup.'"
First off, It has nothing to do with the fact that you said Black, we all have different amounts of pigment, so it's ok if people are referred to by their skin colour in order to reference eachother appropriately of course. The problem that I saw was what was said. That your friends get a "ghetto" accent and use "Black people" phrases...Well, with that, Black people (I am a Black woman of course )are not ghetto. Anyone can be considered ghetto based on either how they behave and dress and are also sometimes grouped in that category because of where they may live. Ghetto is really just saying poverish...something of a lower standard. Remember, people that were of the White race also were put in slums/ghettos just as the Black race. It's just that unfortunately society wants the sterotype of Blacks to be portrayed as "ghetto" people...and the truth is...we are not(We=Black people; if you look at people by the colour of their skin). Anyone that desires to lower themselves or behave a certain way would classify themselves as "ghetto" or someone that thinks being "ghetto" is great would classify themselves...but not everyone feels this way. Secondly, there are no "Black people" phrases such as: "holmes"...that's usually the sterotypical thing we all as people hear Latin people say, but the word you were looking for was "homie". Even still, not all Black people speak this way; again, this is a sterotype that some people live up to no matter what their race is.
I'm sorry for rambling, it's just that I don't think that we should say this is what each group is like, because to be honest, everyone is different, we are all unique depending on our circumstances, or how we are reared. I just had to say this because, being that I'm a Black woman, honestly the only thing you may hear me say would be "sup"...there are so many sterotype phrases that I don't say and if I did I would be told that I sound like a sterotypical White girl. The point is, no matter who we all are, anyone can sound like anything. So we can't say that Black people say certain things over other races. We just can't and that goes for all races...I know it's hard to get away from sterotypes...but I just had to point this out and let you know that it's not true. So if your friends do this, it's probably because the group they hang with speaks like that...but this is not set in stone for all people. And if they were to go out and behave like that towards other Black people, you never know, it just may be offensive. Just wanted to say that. Thanks! And enjoy your day!
*Alright already.....I'm ADDICTED to this,lol!..success!*-Words of Mrs. Alis LeBrane
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