The first time I think she just wants to know him better. In fact we learn a lot from his personality from his reaction.
The fact that he won't swing the club in her direction shows that he respects her and will never hurt her. He moves out of the way and gives up although it's unclear why she puts herself on the way. It's a testimony of his love, or at least respect, for her.
Whether it reminds her of her husband or whether she asks him to control his anger, or is being self-destructive (that's the first i thought actually) is not the point I think.
The second time she knows he would stop so this time she's saying "stop it, you wouldn't hurt me but you could hurt someone else". He refuses to listen and, by respect, she decides not to insist and ... bang...
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