suicide


for those that are in or approaching this age a virgin. have you thought about it? i know i have

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Yes, life can certainly be unbearable when there's not enough love, sex or romance in it, so I understand the suicidal feeling perfectly. But taking your own life is never as easy as it sounds. That's something that really takes guts. I guess it's a good thing that I've never had the courage to off myself, because if I did, I would've died in 1997 (I was 16 then).

"How could a man love anything except a blonde?"
-Captain Phoebus, 'The Hunchback of Notre Dame'

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Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I hope this post is a joke as suicide is not the answer and never is.

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lol that's the biggest *beep* cliche ever.

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No it's not. It rings true once you'very been there. Idiot.

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Not really. How do you know the problem is temporary? It could be for some people, but it might not be for others. Thats why its a stupid saying.

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Suicide do to lack of sex? Not hardly.

Just don't tell anyone. It's none of their business anyway.

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There are a lot of guys who cannot have sex with a botched circumcision. It sucks but is not uncommon.

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There are a lot of guys who cannot have sex with a botched circumcision.

What nutjob (no pun intended) would have a circumcision before even having had sex with a woman?! At least use a condom first. Technically, the man would still be a virgin since there is no skin to skin contact.

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Every person that served can be called a veteran, but not every veteran can be called a Marine.

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It is usually not picked by the man but forced on him by his parents and doctor. It is a disgusting human rights violation in America but the numbers drop every year.

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Oh *beep* up

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Huh? Most circumcisions happen right after a baby is born. So you would wait until you 1st had sex with someone and then go to the doctor to get circumcised? Maybe you don't know what a circumcision is.

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Anybody who is suicidal and wants someone to talk to, private message me.

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I hope this is a bad joke. However, if it's not please know that suicide isn't worth it. It may seem like a good solution but the truth is it devestates family and friends. I understand that feeling of hopelessness but with work you can overcome it.

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lately i have. not just because i'm a terminal virgin. there's social isolation, and current unemployment dragging my mood down as well.

i probably won't because 1) my mom's still alive and if i killed myself it would devastate her for sure, and 2) quite recently i was mostly pretty happy with my life. things are certainly very bad for me now, but i have hope that i can get back to where i was last year, possibly.

I do think I'll probably always be a virgin. girls mostly don't fancy me, and the odd times they have my anxiety has prevented me from taking it any further, so it's hard to see a path forward on that.

This is my happening and it freaks me out.

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Didn't realize I made this thread. I have "tried" to have sex since the posting of this with a girl I met online. But I also have become impotent from a hair loss medication since July 2015 so even on viagra overdose couldn't stay hard.
She was understanding but after multiple times its just frustrating for us both..back to the old fingering etc which I had done before....

NOW I'd have to say there is no hope. And I look back on social anxiety etc. as being huge excuses that can be worked on compared to physical inability.
So to everyone on here, it ain't hopeless until you physically can't have sex.

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Ok dude, here's what you need to do: Embrace the hair loss and shave your head. There are a ton of girls that love guys with shaved heads. Get your boner back and then either hit that chick up again or drink a little booze and pick up a girl at a bar. Don't drink too much or you'll get whiskey dick. Go to a bar that has music and dance with multiple girls. It doesn't matter how bad you are, if you make the effort and have fun, you'll be able to take at least 1 girl back to your place.

If that doesn't work, (it will if you seriously try) then go for the sympathy angle. Tell the girls that you were in a plane crash when you were 19 that put you into a 20 year coma. You recently came out of the coma and are almost back to 100% but missed the prime dating period of your life and you haven't even had sex yet. One of the girls you tell that story to will hook you up.

If that doesn't work, just pay for it and get it out of the way and then you won't feel any pressure and you'll get some confidence. There's always hope, you just need to make a couple of changes.

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Here's what you need to do: stop placing so much importance on sex. It's nothing. It's a big deal only because you say it is, or to a lesser extent, because our modern world says it is. The really successful and happy people don't give a *beep* if they are not having sex, because there is so much more to life. Sex is a very small part of it, and in any case, is never a solution to a problem. If you are really that bothered by it then the only way it's going to go away is if you get into a serious relationship with regular sex. Because even if you have sex the same feelings are going to come back a couple of weeks later. It's not some kind of magic anti-depressant.

Also, hair loss medication that makes you impotent? Why?

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