Because you know that being promiscuous or having a fling or one night stand with someone who has had multiple sex partners will put you at risk of getting diseases, even if you wear condoms you can still get diseases.
It's far better to just wait for the right person who you can have a fulfilling monogamous relationship with, no longer how long it takes.
Exactly! Relationships are 50% emotional, if not 70-80-90%, so don't let your "smaller head" dictate who the "right" person is for you to be with!
"How could a man love anything except a blonde?"
-Captain Phoebus, 'The Hunchback of Notre Dame'
I think it also depends on the age of the individual. I mean in your teens, sure. In college, it's pushing it but still sure. As an adult, especially if you're reaching 40, it may be time to just do it already.
shareI don't think people should have to compromise their standards just because they are older. Maybe they should just make more of an effort to find someone who meets those standards.
shareJust go get it wet. Getting dirty is good for you.
Hey Whitey! Where's your hat?
The fact that the woman (the one who'd be doing the actual 'wetting') has a the final say in the matter, does cast a certain veil of utter hopelessness over the whole situation, as far as hapless losers like ourselves are concerned.
shareI disagree. I have had multiple sex partners. I have had one night stands and long term relationships. I have had a full sex life. As a result, I know what I want and I am a better lover. (I have had a few STDs but nothing that was not curable. Well worth the risk.)
Mate, sex is perfectly natural and nothing to be afraid of. Plus, it's awesome. Protecting against std's is easy, and far from an argument to completely avoid sex until you're sure she's "the one".
Plus, you'd be terrible in bed if you never practice.
Promiscuity might be a risk factor for contracting an STD, but what puts you at risk the most is having unprotected sex. People from developed countries for example, report a higher number of sexual partners, but lower diseases. Another example is the case of Australia where sexual workers have LOWER rates of STDs than the rest of the population, and I assure you my friend, that a sexual worker has a such high number of partners that even the most promiscuous people cannot compete with her.
A monogamous relationship reduces your risk of STDs only when you both get tested prior to going unprotected, otherwise, your risk of contracting one might be even higher than that of someone that has protected sex with 10 different strangers. Just imagine that this person whom you decided to trust without a test had unprotected sex under the same circumstances with two other partner, thse partners had unprotected sex with two other people as well... and that I'm being conservative with the numbers. The average person has more than 5 sex partners, some of which have been one night stands as well. After all, the line between who we perceive as promiscuous and who we perceive as decent person overlap or doesn't exist at all. The only way to significantly decrease you chances of getting sick, is that both you and your partner get tested.
From what I was told by a good friend of mine, you dont have to wait for 'the one' but wait for someone who you trust and who trusts you. Dont have sex for the sake of having sex, that could lead to unwanted pregnancy, STDs, theres even stories of girls willing to have sex only to turn around and cry rape. If/when you do have sex, make sure you trust him/her and they trust you.
shareYou guys should just go out to Nevada and check out a brothel. Those women are certified clean and if you pay them enough they'll let you do all kinds of stuff to them. So quit being desperate and just go out west and get some the easy way. The only way you can.
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