Identity is a complicated thing.
Assuming for the moment, we're talking about someone with the usual XX or XY chromosomes, and the usual body that comes with that:
If the person is attracted mainly to the same sex, is the person gay?
If the person has sex mainly with the same sex, is the person gay?
If the person claims to be gay, is the person gay?
(similar questions for bisexual and straight and I guess asexual)
I think most people understand sexual orientation to be about attraction, and use behaviour as a proxy for that, since we can't easily know the contents of someone's mind, but somewhat more often we can know where they put their genitals. Relying on people's statements about themselves tends not to be very effective in this subject area.
There are some heterosexuals who have sex with the same sex (and vice versa). I think most often they do it for money, lack of opposite sex partners, or for some other sexual dimension like power. They aren't choosing their partners based on attraction, but some other need.
But then there are the closet cases, and even today, that's a very crowded closet.
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As for the film, I think you misrepresent it. It was mainly about four gay men, two of whom (Walter, Cohn) get AIDS, and one of whom dies from it. Two (Pitt, Cohn) are closeted. Pitt says he is gay. Cohn says he's not gay, but makes it clear that his reason for saying that is because people who say they are gay become politically powerless. In other words, he's in the closet, not heterosexual.
I do agree with you on the angels. They seemed grafted onto the play as an afterthought, mostly to provoke and draw attention. It's the sort of self-indulgent nonsense that good editors are supposed to cut out.
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