storytelling vs happiness
it may take a bit for my mind to thaw enough for me to make this a firm opinion, but i think i liked storytelling more than happiness. i feel like it zoomed in on several suburban pyscho-sexual issues that happiness most deifnitely addressed but in a less nuanced way. either way, i definitely enjoy this film, as upsetting as it could be.
on another note, its interesting how many less mainstream directors, like Solondz, depend on lesser known actors and actresses in their movies, sometimes to give them a feeling of anonymity and thus a more relaistic feeling, but solondz uses big names, such as goodman, seymour hoffman, among others, in his movies. its almost as if he wants the audience to have some bit of fiction to grab onto, like seeing a familiar movie star face reminds you that this is a movie, and despite how realistic it is, it allows the viewer to step back and say 'whew, glad this is only a movie'. just a thought.