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'Loser' and ejaculation



I'm not a big fan of the "loser" term, but at least I understand what it's supposed to mean in most cases.

But why do everyone react to Jim's premature ejactulation issues calling him a LOSER.

Why is being extremely horny, so much to not being able to control such a thing, something that makes you a loser?

I really don't get it.

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It's high school . People talk, bitch, and gossip there. You'd think this was one of the minimals for common sense.

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Do girls like it when a guy doesn't last long in bed? No. Now consider how someone who can't even make it to the bed would be perceived.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cG79lGWyL4

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Of course they'd be disappointed, but what's "loser" got to do with it. And plus, compare that to when guys can't even get it up. A lot of girls would get all emotional about the guy not being turned on enough (not that the assumption would be correct), or from the negative side of things he could be called a loser because he doesn't have the power to "get it up". At least I -GET- that. There's some kind of macho logic in it.

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Okay, well this guy doesn't have the power to hold it in before even inserting it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cG79lGWyL4

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It means he lost the chance to do her.

"Friends are dangerous things" ~ John Cavil

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Of course they'd be disappointed, but what's "loser" got to do with it.

He gets the chance to have sex with a drop-dead gorgeous woman and he blows it, twice, in front of the whole town and you don't see why he would be considered a loser?


I used to want to change the world. Now I just want to leave the room with a little dignity.

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Has nothing to do with being a loser. That's just infantile macho breeder talk.

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If you ask me, they were just jealous of Jim.

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Because it shows his extreme lack of experience. It's common for guys to be able to have quick orgasms while woman usually have to go awhile to have an orgasm. Men who are more experienced can last long enough to get a woman to orgasm. Jim couldn't even get it in, let alone touch a girl without ejaculating immediately.

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It's funny how things work out. I'm actually the opposite of premature and I've had girls appear a little offended when they came multiple times and I didn't at all. There's no pleasing some people.

I've had a lot of sobering thoughts in my time Del Boy, it's them that started me drinking!

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Mikeyg24 That is so true.

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It wasn't premature. When it's time, it's time!

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haha exactly

a nut's a nut boys

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Because you're supposed to be able to control yourself so you can please your women.

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That's what tongues are for.

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Exactly Jim could have just went down on her instead.

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Yeah... considering the fact that he had never even been with a naked woman in a bed before that makes it really unlikely that he could had done shit when it comes to pleasing her...

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So true most male teens don’t know how to do oral on a woman.

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Totally. First time I've done oral on a girl at 17 it was like nuclear science to me lol. I literally didn't know what I was doing.

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Sure pal. But now you have internet in your basement, right?

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Your mom is in my basement.

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Well, what did he lose? Control? The worst thing you can lose, thus loser.

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