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Film missed the most important part..... (spoilers)


This film seems to suggest that the hardest part about having a child is being pregnant, which is possibly the furthest thing from the truth!!

OK, I know its called 'Fifteen and pregnant', but I watched it with someone who even commented at the end that the baby had brought the family back together, which is the last thing that would happen.

What happens when Tina wants to go out with friends? Or the baby cries all night and wakes everyone up? Not a happy place to live.

I just felt that the way the film ended was totally unbelievable!

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Huh?

The film ended right when she was about to leave the hospital with the baby. Her family was all together, and everyone was happy in that moment. At that point, slow motion set in, along with sad music, and Tina's narration. She says that from here on out, she doesn't know what will happen. All she knows is that she'll be a mom for the rest of her life, and that babies are great, if you're ready. The end.

The main point of that ending was to show that her future is up in the air. She's only 15, and is already a mother. She'll need to work extremely hard to have the life she wants. The movie ends there, and doesn't show what happens next. That would require a whole other movie.

The ending is completely believable, because her future is unknown, as well as scary. That is exactly how it is for a teen mother... or any new mother, come to think of it!

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While I agree with you, I wonder how many 15-year-olds watching this movie would get that. I watched this with particular interest because I went through it. I even had a little sister like hers who acted that way. This was over 30 years ago and things have certainly changed. We didn't have day care in school or classes for teen mothers. As someone in the movie said, aren't we making it too easy for these kids to have babies? This girl Tina was lucky her parents wanted her to finish school and even go to college, things I was not able to do.

I was disappointed that the movie ended with the birth - I would have thought they would have maybe have her give birth in the middle of the movie and then follow along with showing her reaction to the shock of what it's really like to care for a baby 24/7 when you're just a baby yourself.

And there is no such thing as a cream to make stretch marks go away! Imagine being a teenager and having your body already ruined before you're even grown up. I hope that this film and others like it make the teens of today think about what they may be getting into.

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Actually she said the cream was to "help make the stretch marks go away," and there are creams sold today (and probably 12 years ago) expressly for diminishing the appearance of stretch marks.

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Yes there are creams that help, but they have to be used at a certain time, and in my experience, they don't help all that much.
I have bad stretch marks from rapid weight gain & loss, and the only thing that 'faded' them at all (they went from dark to white) is time.


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Couldn't agree with you more!!!

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I agree with you, OP. Big lovefest at the end, with a dollop of uncertainty, mitigated by determination: Pffft. Thanks, movie, that's a terrific lesson to be spreading.

I watched many television episodes of "16 and Pregnant," which is kind of weird because I have zero dogs in that hunt.

That show did a pretty good job of showing young mothers with newborns at the point where expectations meet harsh reality. The gradually disappearing boyfriend, the permanent and relentless exhaustion, the inevitable estrangement from friends who still want to be silly and hang out at the mall, education sinking lower and lower as a priority, resentment from family members who suddenly have to shoulder massive responsibility for taking care of an infant. . .etc.

Yikes. I was wondering if we shouldn't start sneaking birth control into the high school ventilators.

But straight across the board, the parents and the teens repeated Park Overall's statement from the movie that she "wouldn't feel right" letting someone else raise a member of her family. Really? All those thousands of loving couples with time, stability and the maturity to provide a baby with every opportunity in the world--they don't even rate a little consideration in the "what would be right" discussion?

That was the truly courageous move I was hoping to see at the end of the movie.

Well, anyway, I apologize to anyone offended. As I said, I don't know any teenagers I can lecture personally, so I did it here.

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