I agree with you, OP. Big lovefest at the end, with a dollop of uncertainty, mitigated by determination: Pffft. Thanks, movie, that's a terrific lesson to be spreading.
I watched many television episodes of "16 and Pregnant," which is kind of weird because I have zero dogs in that hunt.
That show did a pretty good job of showing young mothers with newborns at the point where expectations meet harsh reality. The gradually disappearing boyfriend, the permanent and relentless exhaustion, the inevitable estrangement from friends who still want to be silly and hang out at the mall, education sinking lower and lower as a priority, resentment from family members who suddenly have to shoulder massive responsibility for taking care of an infant. . .etc.
Yikes. I was wondering if we shouldn't start sneaking birth control into the high school ventilators.
But straight across the board, the parents and the teens repeated Park Overall's statement from the movie that she "wouldn't feel right" letting someone else raise a member of her family. Really? All those thousands of loving couples with time, stability and the maturity to provide a baby with every opportunity in the world--they don't even rate a little consideration in the "what would be right" discussion?
That was the truly courageous move I was hoping to see at the end of the movie.
Well, anyway, I apologize to anyone offended. As I said, I don't know any teenagers I can lecture personally, so I did it here.
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