Selena death could be prevented if chris really cared

Does it matter now? You seem very obsessed with this deceased singer.

I don't think it matters at this point. Selena is gone and has been gone for nearly 20 years now. We don't need to belittle other people to make each other feel better about opinions we have. The truth is, we weren't there that day. We don't know everything that went on between Chris and Selena. I also don't think it's fair to belittle a man who has gone through hell since his first wife's murder. He tried to move on a FEW YEARS after her death and still couldn't get over her even after being remarried and having kids. He loved his second wife, but she was never gonna be Selena and I bet that caused a lot of issues in their marriage and probably made her feel bad about herself. Imagine being married to someone and knowing how their past relationship ended and why it ended, and clearly his second wife knew who he was. I think Chris has tried and has been trying to move on with his life and it's been hard. He was very young when Selena died. And not only that but she died in the mid 1990s so if his memory isn't perfect then the fact that the murder occurred while he was in his 20s and now he is in his mid 40s should be understandable.

The only person to blame is the one that pulled the trigger, and that was Yolanda Saldivar. I've seen people like you who like to throw blame at other people, But tons of Selena fans tend to not understand that they're treating Selena as if she's a little child. She wasn't. Chris can't hold her hand every second of her life, or tell her where she can and can't go. That's kind of insulting. If Selena wanted to meet Yolanda alone, that was her right, but unfortunately, it cost her, her life.

And honestly, I think Selena made a few mistakes herself. Not saying she was responsible for her own death, but there were definitely things she could have handled better. For example, I forgot if it was VH1 Behind The Music, Or E True Hollywood, but on one of those documentaries, it was explained that one of Selena's employees tried informing her of what Yolanda was doing, but Selena didn't believe it to be true. Another incident had something to do with a check that I think an employee never got and Selena just wrote another one for her. What Selena should have done was do a thorough investigation of it anyway, and not just deny it.

Also, if someone wants to start a fan club of you, wouldn't it be kind of preferred to do a background check on the person setting it up? Didn't Yolanda have a past history of Fraud? Then again Selena's father was always in charge of things. But anyway, I'm blabbering.

And to make things worse, I'm sure the man blames himself everyday. But Yolanda plotted this out for a while. She had every intention to kill selena.Just a jealous, insecure and obsessive woman that clearly, wasn't thinking.

Nobody here on this board or anywhere else in the world can EVER know Chris enough to say how much he did or did not love her. And nobody can speak for him but him except maybe even close friends and family of his.

I could be wrong but I believe Yolanda claimed she was raped on a different day that she murdered Selena. Since it was a different day he could have very well been asleep. I think it says a lot though that he managed to keep quiet for so long. It's just a sad event any way you look at it.

Just because you hear something from other fans, that doesn't necessarily make it true. You should do research on people and see for yourself, rather than going based on His say or her say! It's a bit unfair and judgmental of you to blame Her death on Him, it's obvious that He did love Her and still misses Her deeply to this day. The only one who should be blamed for Selena's death is Yolanda, She was the one who pulled the trigger, not Chris. You could also put the blame on Her parents if you must, because Her Father was the one who wouldn't allow Her to have a blood transfusion that would have saved Her life.
Selena loved Him, and He loved Her, if you could just see them interacting with each other you would know that. Truthfully, you have no right to say anything about their relationship or personal life, being that you clearly are a gullible and illiterate person who can't even do basic research. On a documentary I saw Selena did actually leave while He was sleeping that mourning also, while were discussing facts.


I don't believe a word you are saying, you need to list the sources were you got this questionable information from specifically, and in order, before I will even consider carrying on a conversation. If you can't list credible sources, or if you haven't looked at their interactions/time together then don't bother speaking to me.

So was Chris suppose to be her husband or her babysitter? What was he suppose to do, handcuff her to the bed while he slept and strapped her to his back during the day? She was his wife and some husbands are just irresponsible like that. They actually allow their wives to go places without their permission or supervision.

Chris moved on with Vanessa only 3 years, he already got Vanessa pregnant 3 years after Selena died.