I agree and I'm glad to see an opinion like this. Usually the best friends you find think it's okay to be "platonically romantic" which is just odd-looking, at the least and I wonder how they would feel if their partner did this to them. But it ironically only bothers them if their friend does it to them and chooses their partner over them.
I was beginning to lose faith in love and others who think this is acceptable. It's a very strange thing though...We all have exes and past loves but why does the best friend thing make it so complicated? I can understand how exes can still want to be close but it just can't be the same...I used to think movies like this were cute but now I find it wrong...No one ever thinks of the newer girlfriend as a newer "best friend"...No, she's "just a fling", expendable, but friends? Noooo, they last for life, right? I actually know how to have a best guy friend and do it appropriately. My trick is never getting too close in the first place. But "best friend" could have different meanings to people.
Also, my situation was a little different anyway...Me and the other were both "new" to the same guy but he chose me to date while he grew closer as friend to the other to the point where it made me uncomfortable. Sorry for sharing personal crap, but if anyone knows a movie like this, let me know...I want to see it haha
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