LOVE the book; HATE the film!
If anyone has read the book and REMEMBERS it, they will hate this dreadful "adaptation." The film is utterly ghastly. Sara Crewe is nowhere to be seen in this film! Seriously - this girl is unrecognizable.
The main reason I dislike the film so much is that Sara isn't at ALL the QUALITY person she is in the book. In the book, she is above EVERYONE in her dignity and behavior. She is kind, calm, and sees being a princess as behaving with dignity no matter WHAT happens to you. She talks about the suffering in the Bastille and values behaving honorably.
In the film, she and Becky engage in stupid pranks to get back at people. Yes, it's visually beautiful - but the story is ugly. Just plain ugly.
In the book, she DOES stand up to Miss Minchin and is honest and true - and is so calm and self-possessed that it really angers Miss Minchin. She's MARVELOUS! She is a great role model for girls. In the film, she's more of an average, spiteful child. She's a dreadful role model in the film. And that bit about every girl being a princess? NO! That's the whole point. Any girl can BEHAVE like a princess - but it takes work and sacrifice. It takes uncommon honesty, honor, and dignity. This point is not made in the film.
Sure, her father dies. Fathers DO die. Mothers do, too. In fact, I have two children whose parents died and their story has a very happy ending. They are fine, well-adjusted adults. But when their parents died, it was terrible for them.
The book has magnificent beauty of spirit, magical joy, and is an utter delight. I shall never subject myself to that wretched film again - and both of my daughters, who love the book, swear their children will NEVER see the film until they grow up and see it for themselves!
I do hope you'll give it another chance. It is absolutely beautiful. The movie is terrible. Truly.