So is CHRIS a man or woman?
I would say a he's a guy; even though some of his mannerisms are prissy and so are his clothes, here's my reason's for thinking he's male:
-visible adam's apple
-no hint of breasts
-narrow hips
-sometimes his voice sounded male
-at the wedding scene at the end, he held Pat around the waist while she held him by the arms
-if I remember, it is indicated at the wedding scene that Chris said his vows first; is usually (but not always) that the groom says the vows first