Milla_Hooks wrote:
Yes, I'm pretty sure that I have seen the movie enough to know it's the actress.
What would you like Carrie to be like?Richard Curtis is playing with the conventions of Romantic Comedy, and he has reversed the usual sexual roles. I don't know about you, but that seems to bother some people.
While the character itself is not well-developed
I don't agree at all. I feel that I know her very well, and I like her, and I trust her.
she had little chemistry with Grant,
Well it's hard to have chemistry with someone who is scared to be around you for fear that they will fall for you.
Well, I live in a big city and am pursuing a career, and the amount of sexual partners she mentions is hardly considered "normal" even here.
Than we have had different experiences. I see Carrie sexual behavior as completely within a normal range.
Are you saying if you live in a small town you've only have one or two partners,
No, but there tends to be talk and somewhat different standards from large cities.
and if you live in a large city you must have 30+ sex partners?
Where did you get the "must"? Female sexual behavior varies widely. All I am saying is that there isn't anything unusual about Carrie's sexual behavior. That is based on my observations. Neither does Richard Curtis. In the commentary on the DVD, he expresses complete amazement at the attitude of a British politician — I did not recognize the name — that he had lunch with toward Carrie's catalog aria.
Hugh Grant's character lived in a large city, and yet he had less than half the partners she had.
Grant is hardly trying. He only dates women that he knows that he can dump without any regrets. Except for Carrie, it can be argued that the other eight women that he has had sex with all come from his rather small social group. It is certain for five of them, extremely likely for a sixth, and a case can be made for a seventh. That leaves at most one woman outside of his circle before Carrie. As I said, he is not trying.
Yes, I do consider the fictional characters you mention promiscuous as well.
There we have the disagreement. I don't, and I do not run across that attitude very often on the boards to discuss them.
And aside from that, all of these women are fictional, so if you're using Carrie, Rachel, Monica, etc. as the "norm" of unmarried women living in a big city, your point is rather moot.
They are fictional, but I believe they represent accurately attitudes toward sex in New York City and other big cities. Certainly not the only attitudes, but quite mainstream ones. Not in any way unusual ones, or ones that I would expect to provoke comment.
Carrie is not a well-developed character to begin with, and obviously Andie (and by extension the character) didn't resonate with many of the people who've viewed the film judging by the number of threads on here devoted to this very subject.
It was an incredibly successful movie, and as I said to you in another post, people come here a lot more to complain than to praise.That is true of a lot of boards.
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