aj1111 wrote:
I'm assuming you haven't
No, but I have listened the commentary on the DVD, and they are at points concerned that they have may have made her unlikable. They did not want that.I am familiar with Richard Curtis's other work in this genre, and that is not his style.They were making a Romantic Comedy that they hoped would be successful and was extremely successful. Of course they want the main female character to be likable, and she is for most people. Not for the people who come to IMDb to bitch about the film, but to the people who made it as popular and successful as it was.This is a very unconventional romantic comedy. What may be confusing you is that Richard Curtis is playing with the conventions of Romantic Comedy. He does this in a variety of ways, but the important one for this discussion is that he has reversed the main normal male and female roles. A fair number of people don't understand that and object to Carrie because she does not fit their concept of a Romantic Comedy heroine. Well, she really isn't the heroine; she has the normal male role. The same reverse is true with Charles.
My interpretation is that she is a very passive-aggressive, and controlling person who would be very difficult to live with,
There is nothing in the film that would suggest any of that.Perhaps you are confusing Carrie and Fiona. Do you understand that Carrie is trying to interest Charles, and Charles is too afraid of commitment to get anywhere near a woman that he is really attracted to? He only dates women that he can easily dump, and that would not be the case with Carrie.
which is why at least in part that Charles is number 33 or 34 in her hit parade.
Leaving out the man that she marries and the man that she ends up with, Carrie has had roughly one different partner every year since college. This is very moderate for an unmarried woman pursuing a career in a big city. Cf.
Sex and the City and
Friends.[Edit. Your point did not make any sense to me — I assumed that it was random dumping on Carrie — but perhaps you are suggesting that she had to run through 33 men to find one who would marry her. That still doesn't make any sense. Women who put their career first frequently avoid men who might provide a long-term relationship, both because they don't want to fall for someone and be tempted, and they don't want to hurt a man who falls for them. In their mid-30s, their biological alarm clock goes off. If they want children, they had better do it soon. And they will have more choice of men before their looks fade. Or so they think. I believe that is why Carrie is so determined to settle down. She had not been looking earlier, but she is getting older, and she has left her job at Vogue. Maybe other things are now more important to her than her career. Maybe her career has not turned out the way she hoped.She pursues Charles — even after she is engaged to Hamish — but when he doesn't show any willingness to be in a relationship with her, she marries Hamish. Hamish is wealthy and powerful and I'm sure that he can be charming when he wants to
be.It is basically the same situation in
Sex and the City. The girls waited to settle down because of their careers, but now they want to.]
Furthermore ego say what she said in a toast on her wedding day is to suggest that she really is keeping her options open.
Carrie preferred Charles all along, and she made that clear to him. But he wouldn't respond. After the wedding dress scene, Charles finally manages to quote someone to say that he loves her, but when she prompts him to say it for himself, he can't.She is acknowledging what Charles did say, and she is saying that if the marriage doesn't work out, she would be interested in him. She is committed to her marriage and she is not keeping her options open.
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