Charlie....a real listener
I'm watching the 3rd season and Julia is upset that Griffin bought
the bike shop so now they can't do the things she wanted to do. She
asks Charlie if he understands what she means. Charlie had just found
out that Grace does not want children so he says to Julia "yes, I do
understand" but instead of starting to talk about Grace and him, he
continues to listen to Julia and talk about her situation although
so much of what he says could apply to him and Grace.
How many people do you know that listen like that? How many times are
you telling someone something and within minutes they're talking
about themselves...it might relate and more times then not it doesn't
even relate.
My Mother who has passed on was the only one that really carried on what
I call a balanced conversation like that. I miss her so much
and I guess I need
new friends :o/
This series takes my breath away sometimes.
GladyRuth