Male or Female Angel?
So, what do you think? Do you think the soul of Steve/Amanda decided to become a male or a female angel? My guess????.....
I think Steve/Amanda would decide to stay Amanda and become a female angel. I have a few reasons to justify this.
First, nobody really liked Steve anyway. All women hate him, and he probably only had a very small handful of male friends (Walter being the main one). However, now as Amanda, she has a daughter that would love to see her mother one day. Amanda had something Steve didn't. A family.
Secondly, Steve began to assume and fit into his female role towards the end of the movie. In matter of fact, I'd dare say he always had a feminine side (which would explain his homophobia and overly dominating male personality as Steve, he was trying to keep the feminine side in check.) Remember what Walter told Amanda about Steve: he was horrible to women, but he loved kids..and dogs. That is more of a maternal/feminine trait that wouldn't fit a personality like Steve. If assuming there is no sex in Heaven (why would there be?), I think "Amanda" would be perfectly comfortable being a female angel.
Third, four or five years passed since God first asked Amanda what kind of angel she wanted to be. She was still undecided. Being this much time has passed, I think it is safe to say she will keep her present form.