Was love the greatest fear too be conquered?
I also love this movie and watch it every time it's on.
Daniel didn't have one complete episode in his life, as far as we're shown, of conquering his fears. Yet, at the end, when he goes after Julia to professes his love for her, the "judges" allow him to be with her and to move forward.
And if that's true, did Daniel not love his wife on Earth? Maybe he didn't. Remember what he said about marrying someone who's just good looking enough to turn you on? It didn't seem to me he loved her.
"Oooh, I'll give you such a pinch!" Stinky