Lack of sex scenes
Someone explained that the distributors wanted more female nudity but by that time Andie and Laura had already been cast and they did not want to do it. Which they are absolutely entitled to do. If directors want nudity, they should make that clear right at the beginning.
That makes it sound like the film's coyness, which some people like and some people seem less keen about, came about by chance.
But it doesn't quite explain the lack of sex scenes as the term is conventionally understood. I mean, quite a lot of the scenes are sexy, but they aren't sex scenes as in film stars saying, "Yes, it was terribly embarrassing, but we were wearing flesh-coloured underwear and the camera people made it look as if more was going on than really was". That can't be explained so easily. I can't remember if I ever saw Ms MacDowell in a sex scene, if she did it was clearly not memorable. However, Laura San Giacomo had a fake sex scene on a stepladder in "Nina Takes A Lover", Peter Gallagher faked sex with Annette Bening in "American Beauty", and I really don't have time to list how many films where James Spader has faked sex with people or things or himself!!! Clearly, those 3 are not against having to fake having sex.
So, I am left wondering why, if Steven Soderbergh had chosen to leave out fake sex, he was allegedly tempted to introduce more female nudity??????