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Do all great artists have douchebag dads?


It sure seems like it. This movie reminded me of Shine where David Helfgott's dad was such a douche he drove him insane. Seems like every great artist was abused by their parents, particularly their father. I feel bad any time I hear of a "child prodigy", because usually the poor kid is getting frightened into being a success: "Succeed...or else". Seems like a lot of dads (and some moms) of prodigies are always driving them for their own personal gain, not caring if they are hurting their child. It's a very sad situation. Trying to live through the glory of your child is wrong, parents. They are just kids, don't push them too hard.

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This movie reminded me of Shine where David Helfgott's dad was such a douche he drove him insane.


The portrayal of Helfgott's father was almost all fiction - it was something the screenwriter made up to add some melodrama to the film. Even Helfgott admitted that his father was usually supportive.

Seems like every great artist was abused by their parents, particularly their father. I feel bad any time I hear of a "child prodigy", because usually the poor kid is getting frightened into being a success


It does happen, but since it's become cliche, they make it part of the story even when it isn't true.

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well i am an artist, have not been doing it as much, but yes my dad is a douchebag.

If you do good, you'll see me one more time. If you do bad, you'll see me.. two more times.

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I don't the portrayal of the father here was so so bad, considering the context. They lived in a time when men were supposed to be super macho all of the time and were never to show tenderness or never to apologize. They were also poor and the house was full of mobs of hungry, noisy kids. He was very entusiastic about building the new room and during the process the mother said, "This is the closest he will come to saying I love you." He was stressed out, broke, and impatient. But at least he was never cruel or overly demanding in this story.

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Yeah I didn't think the dad here was so awful. He had a bad mean streak which was really not good at all and he could have done much better in that regard, but it was clear that he loved his family dearly.

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He wasn't evil and he wasnt a saint, he had a temper but ultimately seemed like a caring father albeit distanced from his emotions ("that's as close as he'll ever come to saying he loves you"). He was more complicated than black and white like most real life parents.

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The Dad in the film, however fictionalized he was, came across as a three dimensional human being. Loving but detached. I talk to my Mum about emotional stuff and talk about practical things with my Dad. He never goes on about how much he loves me as much as my Mum does and often keeps himself to himself. I don't feel abused or neglected in any way. After all, he has his own emotions to deal with and he can deal with them how he pleases. I believe Christy's father was the same. Supportive, loving and caring but often misguided, shy and most of all, a human adult male. We're a funny bunch.

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Television just likes to depict men as the antagonist. Even in crime dramas, the bad guy is always a man, and even in the event that it's a women, they explain how she had an "abusive father" and thus it's not really her fault, but a man's fault. My father isn't a douchebag.

Please excuse any typos, this was typed on an iPad

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He wasn't a douchebag in the film at least. Here he was a surprisingly multidimensional character and the performance was good too.

"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." - Mark Twain

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