Of course it was infuriating to watch but it was a perfect example of how often Daisy made her own problems because of her impulsive nature, which was something the character was struggling with (as her Mom reminded her every day) throughout the movie. Both Daisy and Charlie were misfits and only when they had each other to challenge, could they begin to grow in a way they couldn't just stuck feeling like the non-traditional "f*#k-ups" of their respective families.
I have a feeling relationships (and maybe even past jobs) ended for Daisy a lot, in this way: She jumps to conclusions, blows up and then, regrets her temper but it's too late to remedy the situation. She was destructive, emotional and chaotic, probably always realized her mess-ups immediately after committing them and even she knew she'd gone too far, when Charlie explains to her and she realizes she was wrong and acted insane. Amazed he was giving her another chance, she responds to him with: "You're crazy".
If Daisy were an otherwise bad person and/or they had no chemistry together, then maybe there wouldn't be enough excuses in The World to forgive that tantrum. But Charlie made a grand, romantic statement here by saying "I think we're worth more together, than this thing and I don't want to lose that." Yes, it's extreme, wasteful, she was destructive, impulsive, risked losing him etc. but it was probably also a little exciting.
In Charlie's unique position and at his point in life, the trappings of his family's lifestyle were meaningless to him, without some kind of fire and real-ness, authenticity, in life. He knew he was in for a whirlwind of drama and passion with Daisy but that was the life he wanted.
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