what it all boils down to is how the child was taught to enter and view the world. and the choices that the children do fall on the parents. at least they did. I was one of three kids... I was taught to respect my elders and be responsible, my middle sister was taught she was the queen [long story] and then that backfired on my parent's asses bigtime, and my youngest sister was taught to be the Michelle Tanner and was mom's best friend. When the youngest got into a spot of bother in junior year, then mom realized she had created a monster with befriending her kid. everything is fine now, we all have careers and the youngest one is now a mother of two and is amazing with my nieces. Still, we were all raised differently, no matter what roof we were raised under.
back when this movie was made parents were actually held responsible for their kid's crap. now, it's all psychologize the kids this and Freud says it's mother's fault that...
All I am saying, I that what out of school detention really was, was the parent's detention, not really the child. even in high school, it should be the parent's fault.
I have seen kids in kindergarten get at home suspension for bringing in knives/lighters/whatnot [1999-2000] so this is going back to then. There was none of this 'now why did you think...?' nonsense. you did something wrong, whomever you were, whatever situation happened, your parents paid the price.
Oh God. Fortune vomits on my eiderdown once more.
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