I don't think you could find a greater example of just WHY you can't compare then and now than Phil Esterhaus. The character of Phil was an upright, honourable, "liberal" man, fair to everyone, calm, inclusive and kind-hearted. Yet he was appalled when his friend came on to him. Casting my memory back to those days, I imagine his reaction was SHOCK, not homophobia. Maybe a sense of betrayal - "How could you have hidden this from me?" - a reappraisal of their friendship ("Has he been looking at me in that way?")(Obviously he HAD, before anyone gets on their high horse).
Maybe the gay character was badly written. Maybe he should have come out to Phil privately and discreetly, rather than giving the impression that gays just can't help themselves, they have to get the hots for their lifelong friends. Again, it was of its time. We know the writers of HSB were fair minded and had the best intentions.
I like to think that Phil and his friend rekindled their relationship. The Phil we know would have gone away and reflected, been full of sadness and realised that he didn't want to lose his friend.
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