B.J.'s affair


I just rewatched this one this morning - I've always though the writing was clunky and it's still clunky writing IMO in retrospect. There's just no way B.J. would have had that affair with that random nurse.

I can see a situation where he might have gotten caught off guard and kissed that nurse, but there's a big difference between an spontaneous kiss and the time when you both start looking for a private place to go, unbuckling your belt, removing your shoes, dropping trou etc. The B.J. we know simply wouldn't have gone through with it. A kiss when caught off guard? Maybe.

The later episode when the war correspondent (Susan St. James) showed up would have at least made *some* sense as a situation where B.J. strayed if that's what the writers wanted, even for someone as loyal a family man and husband as B.J. Maggie was not only beautiful, she was brilliant, sexy, flirtatious, accomplished, cared very much about the wounded soldiers as B.J. did, and made it very clear she both loved and wanted B.J. badly, something most men would have difficulty turning down. B.J. was also falling in love with Maggie, something that was off the table with the random nurse he actually did stray with.

The war correspondent Maggie would have been the better scenario to have B.J. stray if that's what the writers were shooting for. At least that would have been somewhat believable.

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Agreed. That first story was unconvincing & didn't fit BJ's character. Now, if he had been tempted & had to talk it out with Hawkeye first, that could have made for an interesting story. Hawkeye might have understood BJ's loneliness, but then might have told him, "Don't do it, BJ, because you'll regret it." It could have a been a story that got a little more serious about being away from a loved one & being trapped in the midst of chaos, desperate for some certainty of warmth & comfort & safety.

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I like that so much better - imagine having Hawkeye of all people be B.J.'s moral compass!

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Seeing how much BJ was madly in love with his wife and a happy family man talking about his baby daughter all the time, this was lame and dumb.
There is no way he should have ever had any affair even in your scenario.

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There is no way he should have ever had any affair even in your scenario.


I didn't say he *would* have an affair. My point was the affair with the first nameless nurse was not believable one bit.

If I was writing the show, he wouldn't have had an affair with either woman, but my point was that if *they* wanted him to stray, the Susan St. James situation at least would have been believable where the random nurse was not.

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That is to you it would have been more believable.

To me no situation would have been seeing the kind of father and husband he was.

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Thank you. I just came here after watching the Susan Saint James episode and you are correct. The Saint James correspondent was everything any man in the world would want. The nurse Bj slept with was the same as any other nurse that worked at the camp. There is no way bj would have slept with the nurse but if he was ever really tempted the correspondent would make sense.

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