Stella's decision


I know that controversy surrounds the "changed ending" of the play, but that doesn't concern me so much as my confusion over exactly what the expectations for women were at the time. Weren't women encouraged to stay in abusive relationships during this period?

I keep coming across literature suggesting that the Breen Office and the Hays Code and the PCA worked to promote "family values" by presenting "whole families" to the public, censoring films that would involve wives leaving abusive marriages by seeking divorces, committing adultery, etc.

If they did leave, it was usually for an alternative love interest, by which the "abusive husband" was contrasted with a "gentle, kind man," at least with the "prospect of a whole family." Stanley might have been categorized as a "bad egg," but the film seems to go out of its way to paint him sympathetically while also making it clear that Stella loves him. Wouldn't the play's original ending have been more in accordance of what was expected of women, at the time, who were encouraged to "stand by their men"? Or would Stanley's actions have been deemed too inexcusable even for a conservative audience who would have been left indignant at the idea of the husband getting away with raping his sister-in-law?

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Anyone who saw the play in its original run knew the ending. They also knew that Stanley raped Blanche.

Since domestic violence was almost never discussed in those days I think a lot of societal authority figures were in deep denial about it. Hence the Hays Office and all that stuff. Stella had just had a baby and was a SAHW before that, so she had no options. Just how the late 40s and early 50s wanted women to be.



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And of course, you prefer the alternative? Throw your man to the wolves - even if he is the father of your children over the slightest, most petty offense right?? That's the problem today. Not enough women believe in the stand by your man concept. Not enough women value their men at all.

I wonder how you people will feel when things go bust and all those people you thought you could trust more than your men (ie, social workers, DV workers, etc) are actually trying to kill you for food. I'm not talking about cannibalism exactly. I'm talking about these people acting like the characters in The Purge, people you thought you knew picking up weapons to kill you for what you have in your fridge.

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