You've definitely misunderstood Little Mary's comment. Youngsters oftentimes love to have a chance to sleep with one or the other parent while they're young -- probably, more often with their mother. I've known many parents who love to snuggle with their little kids because it's comforting for both of them!
And, when parents separate or divorce, children often need extra physical love and comfort because their lives go through considerable upheaval. My parents divorced when I was only 10 and, though I didn't sleep with my Mom, I was terribly lonesome for my Dad. Any extra hugs and attention were helpful in making it through the first few years.
Little Mary, in turn,
appreciates having her
Mother all to herself for a bit, which allows her
cuddle up in bed with her
sometimes. There's
nothing unnatural about
that love and affection -- it's innocent and very sweet. This scenario is likely much more
prevalent with little
girls and their Moms than
with little boys and their Moms . . . Mary's comment is very cute and would probably also be soothing for her Mom at times. Being with her Mom, without having to 'share' her with her Dad's presence on occasion, is one of the very few possible 'perks' of the divorce . . . No matter what, Mary still misses her Daddy being there on a day-to-day basis.
Divorce is VERY HARD on kids and anything a single parent can do to help their child feel more secure and loved during those trying times is a good thing all the way around!!
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