Why all the flak for being an awesome girlfriend?
Seriously, I'm not trying to make light of the situation. Sure, it would be embarrassing for anyone not in the pornography business to have something like that released publicly, but the actions themselves aren't anything of which to be ashamed.
I suppose if one is 13 years old that kind of activity seems terribly amusing. But for the rest of us: if we're going to shame anyone, wouldn't it be more logical to shame the women who don't do this kind of thing?
If girls like JBF are "bad," I don't want a "good" one.