Bobby Flay: Bobby Flay. Producer: Bobby Flay's Barbecue Addiction. Bobby Flay was born on 10 December 1964 in New York City, New York, USA. He is a producer and actor, known for Bobby Flay's Barbecue Addiction (2011), Boy Meets Grill with Bobby Flay (2002) and Kelsey's Homemade (2015).