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Is this bitch for real?!


She was soooo offended by hearing a dirty joke she needed to sue for $9 million, but her latest Facebook post is her excitement over the upcoming Mapplethorpe movie. Bitch please...

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Yeah. This is an actress who had an affair onset with married Josh Whedon and she's suing CBS for another actor telling jokes on set because it's inappropriate behavior...

Well, Whedon got her several roles after Buffy so I guess we see how much of an opportunist she is.

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Do you have any evidence or proof that Joss Whedon had an affair with Eliza Dushku?

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Of course not.

That person is just some bitter internet nerd.

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Do you have any empirical evidence that "that person is just some bitter internet (sic) nerd"?

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Whedon's wife. Although she didn't name the actress, everyone has known it was the teenage Dushku since 90s.

Look at how he's helped her career since Buffy was cancelled. No doubt why she refuses to talk about him and his behavior while condemning harmless jokes on set being inappropriate.

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Yes, that there was an affair with a colleague is pretty well known. The dots were connected a long time ago.

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“while condemning harmless jokes on set being inappropriate.”.

If you ask your colleague to go to your “rape van” and say you’re going to spank her in front of everyone, you should be fired. Creepy comment, but not surprising.

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Before jumping to conclusions hear her side of the story: http://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/news/eliza-dushku-i-worked-at-cbs-i-didn%e2%80%99t-want-to-be-sexually-harassed-i-was-fired/ar-BBRbG9t?li=BBnb7Kz&ocid=mailsignout

If her story is true -- and we have no reason to believe it isn't since Weatherly wrote off his behavior as "only joking," criticizing Dushku as having "a humor deficit" -- I stand with Eliza. She testified:

Watching the recordings in the settlement process, it is easy to see how uncomfortable, speechless, and frozen he made me feel. For Weatherly’s part, it looks like a deeply insecure power play, about a need to dominate and demean. In no way was it playful, nor was it joking with two willing participants.


I can't stand arrogant, oppressive scum who treat people like this.

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Here's what Weatherly's former female costars have to say.

Pauly Perrette wrote - “This man… I love, respect, trust, and I KNOW. TWO decades of friendship and respect. “The best. I love you @M_Weatherly. Always and forever.”

Sasha Alexander echoed the sentiment, writing, “I have been in trenches w/ my friend @M_Weatherly. Always laughs, true friend & [a heart] as big as they come.”

If i'm to believe Dushku's description of an abusive bully who disrespects women then why are 2 women who have worked with him for a hell of a lot longer than Dushku defending him and praising his character.Why has no one else come forward.Why is there zero history to support her claims of his disrespectful behavior.

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It's a good point. But just because Weatherly respected these two women on the set doesn't mean he treated Dushku properly. Also, you can't discount the possibility that these women have professional reasons for supporting him -- seeing as how he holds clout in the business -- and are, in essence, "Yes women."

Three things support Eliza's position: (1.) Her detailed testimony rings true, (2.) she has recordings to verify her account and (3.) why pay her off with $9.5 freakin' million (or whatever) IF she had no case in the first place?

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"you can't discount the possibility that these women have professional reasons for supporting him -- seeing as how he holds clout in the business -- and are, in essence, "Yes women."

Actually it's the women who hold far more clout in the business lately.They wouldn't have suffered any professional repercussions from coming forward.In today's powerful #metoo/times up climate situations like this always favor the woman's word.So i'm inclined to believe their sincerity since they had nothing to lose.Which means there's no history to back Dushku's claims about his character.

I haven't heard about any recordings but i still say if she's telling the truth why has not a single person stepped forward to support her or corroborate her take on it.

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Because they don't want to lose their job. It happens all the time when a whistleblower comes forth, whatever the occupation. Who wants to risk losing their bread & butter, especially when it happens to be a great gig, e.g. the TV biz. Better to stay neutral by keeping silent.

Actually it's the women who hold far more clout in the business lately. They wouldn't have suffered any professional repercussions from coming forward.


Really? Because Eliza lost her job immediately after confronting Weatherly, at least according to her account detailed in the above link. If you haven't read it, check it out. She says she has recordings of the inappropriate treatment, which Weatherly himself admitted to; he just wrote it off as "joking," claiming that Dushku is to blame because she lacks a sense of humor. No, I think she just didn't find his blustering control-freak tactics & crude non-humor funny; and he was too stupid and ape-ish to perceive it.

Besides, why pay out $9.5 million when no serious offense was committed in the first place?

Btw, I'm speaking as someone who rolls his eyes at a lot of the dubious claims of the #metoo movement, which has become a mass witch hunt. Yet all the questionable claims of "abuse" don't negate the legitimate ones.

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"Btw, I'm speaking as someone who rolls his eyes at a lot of the dubious claims of the #metoo movement, which has become a mass witch hunt. Yet all the questionable claims of "abuse" don't negate the legitimate ones."

Agree with you there but i'm just not yet fully convinced that this is a legitimate case.Until those supposed recordings are heard their a moot point.Weatherly's been acting since the early 90s and there have been no previous complaints or incidents from any of his many many past female costars.So far i haven't seen any actual proof other than Dushku's word.I would be more convinced if anyone from the cast or crew who were there stood up and backed up her version of events.

I guess firing her looks bad.But it doesn't necessarily prove guilt.It could just be a case of 2 actors who rubbed each other the wrong and just didn't feel comfortable working together anymore.In that case if the studio has to decide to get rid of one of them it's not gonna be the star of the show.

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Because they don't want to lose their job.


what job??

Both Sasha and Pauly USED to work with him on NCIS.

Both left the show before he did.

Neither are on his current show.

So what job are they going to lose?

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Do you seriously think you can be a whistleblower to corruption in Hollywood -- TV or cinema -- and not have it negatively affect your career? This includes those who support a whistleblower. Eliza said in the linked article (above) that Weatherly had connections with the studio brass and would use it for leverage to manipulate people, get 'em fired, whatever. It's like any other business, you're supposed to go with the herd, submit to those in power, and turn your head when you observe abuse. No one wants to lose their bread & butter.

This is what happened to Grace Lee Whitney on the original Star Trek. She was a popular side-character in the early episodes, but after episode 12 -- "Miri" -- she was sexually assaulted by an exec at the Friday night end-of-the-week party. She adamantly resisted and the next episode was her last with only a cameo appearance. The producers offered a lame excuse for her departure.

There are a gazillion similar stories with Dushku's being one of the more recent.

Besides -- as I said earlier -- just because Weatherly harassed Eliza it doesn't mean he did the same to Pauly and Sasha (likely because he knew the latter could kick his axx). In this case, their defense of him would be sincere.

This happens in virtually every business: My wife was an office manager for years until the executive came on to her, which she blatantly rejected. By the end of the year she was basically forced out. The exec didn't abuse every woman in the office, but he did so with her. It's a similar scenario with Eliza and Weatherly (that is, IF her account is accurate).

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I'm sure it's happened countless times in the past.But that kind of backlash just doesn't happen much anymore.In these #metoo times The industry takes these accusations and the women who come forward very seriously now a days.

I don't get why your so sure he's guilty when there's been nothing to substantiate the claim yet.So far it's just he said she said.All weatherly admitted to was making the remarks in the context of joking around on set.There's a big difference between having a dirty sense of humor and harassing somebody.

My 2 biggest problems with the claim are 1. Weatherly having no history of this behavior.Middle aged men don't just wake up out the blue one day and think hmm today's the day i'll turn into a sexual harasser and go pick on this particular actress.There's always some history.

And 2. There's absolutely no concrete proof supporting either Dushku's or Weatherly's version of events.I want to hear the recordings.I want to hear what the other cast and crew who were there thought.I want to hear something from Weatherly's past that would even remotely suggest this type of behavior toward women.The guys been acting for nearly 30 years.



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she sued someone for $9 million ?! whatt how why

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She was signed a contract that would pay her 9.5 million over a several seasons (I believe there were multiple seasons involved) and when she complained about the work environment they fired her.

The 9.5 million was not for the work environment but for the unjust firing.

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Are you claiming that she is NPC like Alyssa Milano?

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I think she's lying. She made some accusations against a producer from True Lies before. All of Weatherley's female co-stars from NCIS said that he never harassed them, even Pauley Perrette, and she's known for being a professional victim type.

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I believe he said those things. I also believe that if Dushku said "hey asshole, back off - you're triggering me and I'll sue if you don't stop", he would never have looked in her direction again.

But none of this *really* bothered her until she wasn't rehired.

If things were so bad, why was she upset she wasn't brought back?

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Someone told a dirty joke where I work, where's my $9.5 dollars?

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