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dated John 4 yrs b4 marriage,but still div; Will Jerry last?


RR dated John from 94-88 when they married in Sept 98. They seperated in Apr 04 and div in 05.

RR met Jerry in Apr 04 and they began dating in Sept 04. They got engaged just 1 yr later, & married 3 yrs later on 14July7. Yes Jerry & her also dated for some time, almost 3 yrs.

Now that RR is pregnant their is more @ stake...but staying 2gether 4 kids when unhappy w 1 another isnt good either.
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Why are people always starting a fire when a someone is enjoying a happiness in life?

She has remarried, and now is starting a family with her husband.. From your message, you seem to be counting down the day to their marriage demise!


Can't you just be happy for them? Or atleast, realize that there is a problem in your thinking and thought process that you have to rain down negetivity on their happy news?? WTF?!

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I can understand why someone would be questioning their happiness and even wondering how long they will last. How can anyone be sure about their relationship as husband and wife goes? Not you nor I. No one can make that judgement whether is is good or bad. But one must take into consideration what we do know. Not that long ago a read where someone posted that Jerry was on the Howard Stern show and he talked about his relationship with Rebecca. I had to read it for myself so I looked it up on the internet and I must say after I read the entire interview of what Jerry had to say, I was shaking my head. First of all, it is so very obvious that he is in a relationship with someone who is very controlling and unpredicable. All he can do is just go along with what she says because he is afraid to say how he really feels. If he does speak up he only knows that she will get upset with him and he does not want to fight with her. He even openly admittted on his own that Rebecca once punched him so hard that he fell down. I ask why would he even talk about such a private issue?? Maybe he felt he needed to talk to someone about it and this may be his way of trying to deal with a serious problem but yet really not understanding the situation that he is in. I do not consider this to be a life full of happiness and I have a strong feeling that their may be many more issues in this relationship that we do not know about. Many times couples will decide that they should go ahead and have children in hopes that this will help them with problems they are having in their relationship. NO this is not the solution because in the long run it will be the children that will suffer.

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Who said they were unhappy? I'm sure they're not

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I could be wrong, but I thought John and her divorced b/c she didn't want children. Now she has twins?

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CyberSaint I also thought that was one reason she and John divorced that he wanted kids but she didn’t. As far as if they will last or not only time can tell but that’s the truth of any relationship. With roughly 50% of marriages ending in divorce then anyone has roughly 50/50 chance that they will get divorced or stay together.

I am pretty sure I read a study somewhere that said that someone who has been divorced before is more likely to have another divorce then someone who has never been divorced. In fact at divorcesstatistics.org supports that 45% to 50% (first marriages end in divorce) 60 to 67% (second marriages end in divorce) and 70 to 73% (third marriages end in divorce) as you can see a person chances of divorce actually increases with each divorce. That said people who have children are less likely(40%) to get divorced then those who don’t have children(66%).

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