CONSIDERING THE COMMONPLACE TALKS MY DAD AND I HAD...IM PRETTY SURE I KNEW WHAT I LIKED IN KINDERGARTEN...SUSPENDED THE SECOND WEEK OF SCHOOL FOR CHASING,TACKLING AND PULLING DOWN THE PANTS OF NICOLE...TO "GET A GOOD LOOK"...THE STORY IS FAMILY LORE...I BRIEFLY DATED NICOLE LATER IN LIFE.
Is Birdie a Male or female because if a female then SHE is a lesbian, if Male then HE can be gay. But either way he or she isn't a they. If they dont like being a he or she then they can swap as soon as they have surgery to rework the plumbing.
Frankly it sound like the mom is just a fucking job. A 10 year old hasn't even entered puberty, and some 10 year old think they are aliens or dogs but you don't enable the delusion.
No you change your plumbing to change your gender from he to she or she to he. There is no they. They is a delusion like some homeless bum that thinks he is a dog or kangaroo.