Just an Opinion or Five

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You seem to be under the impression that I'm trying to get people upset, and I'm not. My opinions just tend to be not terribly bold. That's just how they are. If you didn't feel particularly intrigued by them there was no obligation for you to reply and yet you did. Also, I was not taking a stab at anyone in particular about drama and gushing, just general boards. Now, if I'd come right out and say you were a terrible person I think you'd have reason to be upset, but I don't think you do.

Besides, I just wanted other peoples thoughts. I provided my own, and if they're boring, so be it. Doesn't mean everyone else's have to be. It's a bit hard to be combative with yourself. I'm much better at discussion once I have someone else to discuss with, someone such as yourself.

And I never said you weren't entertained. I was making a comment that was very specific to my own thoughts. I don't claim to think for anyone else. I'm not psychic. Also, "entertaining" for me does not particularly mean "I enjoyed every single moment". Just means I could find parts of it that were enjoyable and find that it was worth a look. As I said, I'm pretty easy to please.

I can understand you being entertained by the man himself though. You have every right to be. However, you'll note that I made mention that what celebrities do themselves is rarely of much interest to me. Now, if you were talking more of "entertained by him" in the sense of his performance in movies then I'd agree with that. I enjoy watching his performances. I know what to expect, and what I expect is delivered.

I didn't watch Dragons and I can't remember much of Ligeia, so I don't really have much of an opinion on either of them. Perhaps I will one day. Though, I do remember at the end of Ligeia having considerable feelings of "uhhh...what was that?". Story definitely could have done with better explanations instead of just expecting the viewer to follow the already weird story. I feel it assumed too much of the viewer. Concept wasn't horrible, but the same can't be said for the execution.

I think I may just really enjoy being uncomfortable. Can't say I think it's something all people would find appealing, which could also contribute to people's general distaste for it. I don't think I've met a lot of people who enjoy being uncomfortable.

And yes, it does require a lot of money. I've had units on film in previous classes, and I'm currently in an intro to film class so the idea of advertising was on my mind. I didn't so much mean that all films have to money to advertise, but that it would be nice if they could. And yeah, when one comes right down to it film and acting is not just art. It's an occupation. Not much point if you don't get paid.

I respect his being not dead too. Seriously, having heard what he did to himself I'm honestly wondering what sort of mighty will to not die he has. And yes, he did do that for a time, but my respect comes more from the fact that he's working his way back from being human-mush. That is something I'm certain I'd have a hard time doing. I kind of stink on the rebound, and I'm rather stubborn. I'd end up digging myself into a hole that I would never get out of. That's how I feel anyway, so someone being able to get out of their personal hole (or at least trying to) is something I find admirable.

And you seem to be taking that comment far too seriously. I'm kinda easy-going so a little bit of silliness is just part of how I talk and type. It's habit, and I do apologize if it didn't sound that way to you.

And no, I wouldn't. Rude for me is more along the lines of people just shouting their opinion and not listening to what other people have to say. You have done no such thing.

Also, it appears I skimmed over that bit on pornography. Must be tired to not notice caps. Silly me.

I'd like to respond appropriately, but I'm also a little unsure if you're genuinely joking or just trying to be crude. Either way, I do hear porn stars do pretty well for themselves, however, I wouldn't watch that. I guess I just have a soft spot for plot.

Personally, I think your post is one of the very few I felt like reading for pretty much every reason you listed why you don't read them or post! Nicely written! No gushing like a 5 year old and no griping like an old man. :) Thank you for your thoughts. I have met Wes personally and he is such an very nice person. (Not "fan-met", "friend-met"). His sense of humor and ability to laugh ant himself is one of many reasons I will always stand by him. (That and I think he IS a gifted actor!) Thank you for your thoughts and now know that your well written post was respected by someone who appreciates them posting their thoughts knowing they are THEIR THOUGHTS and not everyone's absolutes! Enjoy! (And forgive any potential typos please... Apparently they will not let me preview this. Oh well.)

Thanks for posting one of the most respectful and level-headed messages I have seen on this site. Well done. On this site, it is commonplace to see posts from people who might have valid points but slather them with over-the-top animosity on the subject until the point is lost. And as was said, most people only seem moved to comment if their aim is to gush to the extreme or when they feel that something is a complete dumpster fire, and they won't hesitate to insult those who disagree with their opinions. Kudos for keeping the car between the lines.

I'm still in the process of discovering Bentley's work, but so far I have to agree with you in the sense that what I have seen so far is consistently entertaining. And no, every movie does not have to be Citizen Kane or Schindler's List to be entertaining (although I do love both). When I form an opinion on a particular movie, I judge it based on what it is trying to be and nothing more. Does it succeed on its own level? If so, then it satisfies. It's the same with actors - everyone can't be Leo or De Niro. There simply aren't many who perform at such a high level - they are elite and they are few. But that doesn't mean that others can't be engaging onscreen and deliver exactly the performance that the role they are playing requires, and so far, this is how I have viewed Wes Bentley - as a capable actor who possesses a natural charisma that comes across well onscreen and who manages to make his roles memorable even if they are relatively minor. That's saying something.