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Seriously she's with Ben Folds?

posted 12 years ago by CancerGrly19
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I like her...in fact I LOVED her on Law and Order: CI. She's attractive, a good actress, seems to keep her private life pretty private. However I don't get why on earth she's with a douche like Ben Folds (I don't get why on earth he still gets women to be honest). I'm a straight female (even if it sounds like I'm not lol), but really how can a man who has been married AND divorced 4 times not raise some major red flags?

In fact his 4th wife was the woman he left his 3rd wife (and mother of his children might I add) for. Knowing all that (all she would have to do is Google him) why on earth would someone as seemingly independent (she hasn't rushed to the aisle) want to date someone who has been married that many times?!? I ask because it seems like women (even my own friends do this) always think they will be different. This guy clearly jumps into things and doesn't value loyalty and fidelity at all. And I wouldn't even date him, he just reeks of someone who can't be alone at all.

[–] mobocracy 10 years ago

Well, maybe its a question of being Mr. Right Now instead of Mr. Right Forever and For Always?

I think we've all been in a situation where something is obviously wrong for the long term but sure looks interesting for the near term. As long as you go into it with your eyes open, why not?

[–] eljefe320 10 years ago

The bigger the jerk, the more attractive they are to women. Or haven't you ever noticed that? They must have some gene that draws but the worse the guy, the more women desire them. Not like the smart ones aren't that way too.

[–] Number_One_Birdlawyer 9 years ago

Nnnnnnnoooooooooooooooooooooooooo!! :'(

[–] geraldgarrow 9 years ago

They're no longer together. They broke up in June 2014 over a year ago.