Why is it eveyone else's fault but her's?

She has appeared on The View numerous times and talked about how Harvey Keitel ruined her financially, emotionally, and otherwise during their divorce. She also claims that Mr. Keitel caused her a lot of grief in other ways that she was unwilling to disclose. And yet the information that she selectively chose to omit during he appearances on the show, and the information that the women never challenged her on is how she has been married three times to different men unsuccessfully and also that she has been treated for clinical depression, for which she takes medication to control. And it wouldn't be unreasonable to consider that as a primary contributing factor to her marriages breaking up.

She was most recently divorced from Edward James Olmos after being married to him for years from (1994-2002), almost 10 years. Before that she was married to Harvey Keitel for over 10 years from 1982-1993, and her first marriage occurred when she was married briefly for 3 years to Daniel Guerard from 1979-1982 when she was in her late 20's. However that marriage is not lasting is understandable, due to her youthful age at the time. Nevertheless, the others occurred when she was more mature and older, so why does it always seem to be everyone else's fault regarding her marriages breaking-up, but never he own according to her?

It is tiring listening to professional women, that others consider to be strong-willed females, playing the victim selectively when things don't work out for them. Heck, she is characterized as others as being a very strong-willed Brooklynite, that has achieved very great professional success due to her fortitude and tenacity. So if she's strong enough to achieve that type of professional success, why can't women like her be strong enough to accept the role that they played in their romantic relationships breaking-up? They always want it all, as long as they don't have to accept the responsibility/blame for the failures they experience!!! But when that occurs, they frequently resort to playing the victim which is a contradiction to the strong-willed woman that she normally portrays.