First, did I say anything was illegal, or actionable? I'm on Woody's side on this, but there is another side that to me is not dismissable just because Mia Farrow's hunger for revenge has taken over her life.
There were several stories about a woman/girl that Woody "dated", with full knowledge of her parents, but she was underage I believe. She talked about Woody getting her to have sex with multiple partners, including Mia Farrow. It's fuzzy from memory, but borderline.
For Soon-Yi, I suspect that they were involved before Soon-Yi was of legal age. It's splitting hairs in my view, though it could have turned out very different and very ugly. What difference does a few days, or a few month, or even years make. The child abuse laws, I think, were to prevent adults from having sex with children and all that might entail - abuse.
I don't think it is abuse for a not yet of age women to decide for herself that she wants to have sex. When I was a kid both I and the girls I knew at the time were very curious and horny about sex. So the difference is in the age, but it is really age? Or is it something else? No one understands it, no one can define it, and if they could no one could agree on it, so we make this law that just makes the whole thing illegal, a crime, and that works - but for those cases that either never come to light or that are arguable.
Seems most men are happy to hunt in the legal hunting zone, so to speak, but there are the outliers, situations that are nauanced, and in this area are not likely to be provable. In these cases, even with #MeToo I do think the woman gets to decide what her experience was - as a warning to men to think of the future.
The whole subject is ripe for scientific or sociological study, but I would be very careful about messing up real people's lives.
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