Jennifer Lopez On Oliver Stone Asking To See Her Tits
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYLudCMQEAU
"You know I thought to myself, this is funny, I was doing a movie, with a big, big star, big director - nameless - early in my career, and I got the lead woman role in the movie. And the director said to me, "Can I see your tits?" And I was like, "Umm, no you can't." And he was like, "Why not? Are they saggy?" I said "No, actually, they're perfect. But you're not gonna see them." And he was like, and he pushed a little bit, and then he stopped. He realized he was gonna get nowhere with me. And I thought to myself, would you ask the star of this movie to see his dick? No, you would not. Or his ass? You know what I mean? Why are you asking me this? Like, I'm not gonna show my tits in your movie. So... blah blah blah... whatever. So it was just weird."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR-zklYyMOI
"A director at a fitting asked me to take my top off. To see... Well because I was supposed to do nudity in the movie. He wanted to see my boobs. And I was like, "We're not on set." Well, he was crazy. And... And I said no, I stood up for myself. But it was so funny because I remember like being so panicked in the moment, like oh my god. And by the way, there was a costume designer in the room with me. So there was another woman in the room with me, and he says this and I was like, "No." You know luckily a little bit of the Bronx came out, you know what I mean, and I was like, "I don't have to show you my... No. On the set, you see them." That's the thing, because you give in in that moment, and all of a sudden that person's off and running, thinking they can do whatever they want. And because I put up a little boundary right there and said no, he laid off and then later on apologized. But the minute he walked out of the room the costume designer was like, "I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry that just happened." And I was like, you know, thrown for a second or whatever but that was uh... No, I'm not supposed to get naked before I get on camera. And I take it off at the last minute, like I know this stuff. And so again it's like teaching, passing it down, and what's happened now is a big lesson for all women, right. It's like no, these things are okay, these things are not okay, and it doesn't matter what context it's in, it's never okay to feel uncomfortable."