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Stop with the personal attacks


Some commentators seem to think it's okay to personally attack you if your opinion defers from theirs. Stop already. You can have a discussion without name calling and personal attacks.

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I always cheer up immensely if an attack is particularly wounding because I think, well, if they attack one personally, it means they have not a single political argument left.


--Margaret Thatcher

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This, I think, is usually the case.

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Never been any different, in a debate about whatever topic, if one side gains the upper hand with their arguments, the other side will always try to compensate their weaker arguments with personal attacks and insults.
That's why you can see most of the right wingers in here using foul language when talking about the left, they simply don't have any civilized arguments for their belief.
Same thing in the movies and series section when they are insulting anything that looks remotely "woke", you'll rarely see anyone doing that without foul language, in fact for them alone the word "woke" is used as an insult already.

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I think the trick is to not take the attacks personally, because they don't actually know you, and what does it say about them that they're so offended about a difference in opinion? Them name-calling is confirmation that you don't need to take those names seriously. Also, idk if it's just because I grew up with siblings, but I find it pretty hard to be offended by strangers' opinions of me, like what names would actually hurt your feelings?

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How about nincompoop?

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Here's a musical trivial question - without using Google or any other computer aid, can you name a song where the word nincompoop was used?

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I cannot ☹️

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I like that word and it was a surprise to hear it in a song.

Is This The Life We Really Want (2017) from Roger Waters has it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Htjj7NJiNBA

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Also Desmond Dekkar: -
https://youtu.be/bEkkFJQHmVo?si=61QxpW4xIMfHiUEW

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Eight more songs and we have enough for a nincompoop album!

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A Grammy Award nomination at least 🤔

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Although when the album Nincompoop wins, it will cause confusion as all attendees will think they won.

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I wanna say it was used in a song in Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory, but I think that's just what Grandpa Jo called one of the other kids.

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Try the ignore feature on this site.

It works well.

Problem solved 😀

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I already have that troll on my ignore list. Like the post above suggests, just click ignore. Bada bing bada boom! Problem solved 😀

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Who is it?

Signed, million man.

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For the recorcd, /user/TiberiumKing/posts.

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I would have never guessed it was that guy.

Signed, million man

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APPARENTLY VALERIAN HAS ME ON HIS IGNORE LIST AS WELL.🤷🏻‍♀️

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I hope not. That would be his loss. I'll find out.👇

Signed, million man.

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Hey, do you have Kowalski on ignore? Kowalski wants to know.

Signed, million man.

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When discussing things, facts need to be brought forth, and not emotion. As soon as you get emotional about something, then a person must rather refrain from talking, otherwise it's just a constant slugfest, and all reason and facts go out of the window.

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You came here to start an arguement...

will this be just 5 minutes, or a full half hour?

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Not a Monty Python fan then.

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Maybe not that big of a fan, since I don't get the reference.

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This is broadly true but all too often a humiliated poster will try to shut down discussion by pretending to be a victim of ‘name calling’.

For example, Flimflam (filmflaneur) might say he’s being insulted or the victim of ‘ad hom’ when he is described as a pretentious low IQ cult victim, when in fact he is merely being… described.

It’s important to draw the distinction between genuine objections to name-calling and thinly veiled Leftist language policing to evade uncomfortable truths.

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It's unfortunately true with flimflam.

He's the kid who gets picked on at school that you felt sorry enough for to try to initiate a friendly conversation with, only to quickly realize they bring it on themself. When flimflam isn't pointing the finger and crying ad hominem, it's probably because he's busy engaging in one of his own at the moment.

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Great observation.

Creatures like Flimflam make you realise the sad truth that bullying can have a healthy social function.

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Quite a little echo chamber you have going here lol I am flattered.

bullying can have a healthy social function.


I'm hard to bully, but thank you for the admission anyway.

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I’m sure you were very easy to bully - largely because you were too retarded to realise you were being bullied.

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Oh dear. Is that really all you can offer?

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I can see it now - you trying to impress the bullies with your latest Latin phrases while they took turns kneeing you in the balls…

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