I wouldn't snitch on my friends or family no matter what they have done, even murder (depending on the circumstances).
The only thing that would make me break my loyalty would be if the person was a rapist or is abusing someone. As for murder, if the person is like a serial killer that kills innocent people, I would turn them in. If however they gave me a good reason for murdering someone, and the person had it coming, I would not snitch.
The only other reason I might call the cops on a family member is if they were being violent towards me, and I wouldn't be able to solve the issue by fighting them. For example, if my girlfriend or wife was physically assaulting me and I wouldn't be able to fight back, I might call the cops depending on the circumstances. Sometimes it's also useful to call the cops to get a certain incident on record. This could be very important if you ever have to go to court.
I have personally called the cops on my step father when I was very young (12 years old), because he was being violent. I refused to tolerate abuse from my parents. On the other hand, I had friends who've committed some very serious crimes, and it has never once crossed my mind to snitch on them.
And finally, there is snitching to save yourself. Like for example you do something criminal with your friend, you get arrested, and the cops try to convince you to snitch in order to avoid jail/prison. I was in a situation like that once and neither me or my friend snitched. We held out strong, even though we both were facing a short amount of jail time. However, If it was a situation where I was facing years, like a decade or more, I don't know how strong I would be. I guess it would have to depend on who the friend is. If the friend was like my brother, who would do anything for me, and I for them, I might stay strong. But you can't really know until you're put in that situation.
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